(Closed) My slimy, icky ex! (Ewww)

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1552 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

ew ew ewwwww

there will come the time that you look back and think it’s funny

Post # 5
9629 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Treejewel19:   Ew is right, what a creep.  What does your husband say about all that?

I don’t think I’d say anything, though.  But, idk, maybe.  Interested to see what other Bees think, lol. 

Maybe you could ask your friend about the FB pics and see if they’re in a committed relationship.  Just because they had a baby together doesn’t mean they’re together-together.  But, still, he knows you’re married so he’s still being entirely inappropriate.  Good for you for blocking him.

Post # 6
2497 posts
Buzzing bee

Why did you continue to talk to him after the first inappropriate message? Just because you’re friends with his sister doesn’t mean you have to indulge him. I personally would have nipped it in the bud long before it got to this point.

Post # 7
2376 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

SO gross!  I wouldn’t tell his sister unless she brought it up though, especially since you’re friends, and like it or not, they’re related.  I know I’d publicly back my sisters even if they did something incredibly icky and stupid. 

Post # 8
2188 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2024

Shameful, just disgusting.

Post # 10
4284 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

What does your husband think of him contacting you?


He knew you were married, you asked him to stop, he just became a father, write it off and never look back! Great job with the blocking and such. I don’t see the point in mentioning to your friend 🙂

Post # 11
4439 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@somethingaquamarine:  +1


But as for your question, OP.  No, I wouldn’t tell your sister, that’s her BROTHER, FAMILY so it’s only going to cause problems between you and her.  If you want to keep her as a friend you did the right thing by cutting communication with her idiot brother,  hopefully she doesn’t question you about it.

Post # 12
1116 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Sunfire:  +1  I had an icky ex friend me on fb a long time ago (I was newly engaged).  Anyway, I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and accepted him.  Within hours he sent me an inappropriate message all “oh, I didnt’ know you were engaged” and “do you think he is the right one”.  I immediatly ended the fb friendship right there!  I didn’t even respond to his message.  If I had been you I would have blocked/deleted your ex months ago at the first sign of inappropriateness.  Glad you finally did 🙂




Post # 15
38 posts
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Treejewel19:  sounds like you dodged a bullet there. good riddance.

Post # 16
6207 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

Well at least now the timing makes sense! Once everything started getting real with the baby (which you have no idea if he wanted the baby or not) he started thinking about how now he is tied to his kid’s mom, and he started thinking about your relationship, and what if he were tied to you instead. Since he’s not married, he’s probably going through the same kind of crisis people go through when they get engaged RE his baby momma. “What if she wasn’t the right person to have a kid with? What am I going to do now? Is my life over?” and he started talking to you to see if he you still found him attractive and explore those what if questions.

I wouldn’t tell his sister unless she asks you. Most likely, he won’t mention it, because then he would have to explain why he was talking to you in the first place. I would, however, congratulate her on being an aunt!

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