(Closed) Doubts about getting married…

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
5664 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m confused by what happened that caused you to go to a psychiatrist. He left you in a flat togo back to England? Did he just disappear? Or did you discuss it and he had to go back and you didn’t like having to be there alone or?? What are your reservations about marrying him?

Post # 4
Member
211 posts
Helper bee

@Marissa007:  I don’t think anyone should walk down the aisle unless they are 100% confident in their decision.   If he is the right guy, he will wait until you are ready and feel confident about marrying him.

 

 

Post # 5
Member
1093 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Don’t do it if you’re not sure. Take some time, go to couples counselling, do whatever you need to do to figure out what you want. Don’t let him pressure you into moving faster than you’re comfortable with. You don’t owe him anything.

Best of luck to you!

 

Post # 6
Member
202 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@MsJ2theZ:  This!

 

I’m very confused on what exactly your reservations are and what exactly he did to you.

 

Regardless of the reason if you are having serious reservations you need to resolve them before walking down the isle!

Post # 7
Member
7908 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

Don’t get married until/unless you are 100% sure.

Post # 8
Member
7656 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

If yu are having doubts about marrying him, DON’T MOVE TO ENGLAND, first and foremost. Second, don’t marry him.

Post # 9
Member
1576 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Listen to your instincts!

Post # 14
Member
202 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Marissa007:  I’m so sorry! I think you two would benefit from some couples counsiling. It sounds like you both have some emotional stuff that needs to be worked out. I think you should at the very least post-pone the wedding until you get these issues resolved, don’t get married until you feel 100% about it.

My gut often changes too.  What helps me is trying to look at the situation like it’s happening to my best friend instead of me.  What would you tell your best friend to do if the exact same thing happened to them?

 

Good luck!

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