Down in the dumps (looking for support).

posted 3 years ago in TTC
Post # 2
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2840 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m sorry you’re going through this. It’s so, so frustrating and heartbreaking. How long have you been TTC? Are you going through any fertility testing? 

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I don’t have any experience but I just wanted to lend my support! I wish you and your husband good news soon!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Merelton:  I’m really sorry you are feeling this way. TTC is bloody hard!! Such an emotional roller coaster once you reach 6 months. Definitely get DH to do an SA and it would be no harm to get bloods done yourself now too. Look after yourself, meet up with friends and drink cocktails (if that’s what you’re into!). That’s the only thing that gets me through the beginning of yet another cycle. Xxx

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Merelton:  So sorry. I know how frustrating it is. I’m getting AF as we speak…it’s so hard to want something so badly and not be able to have it. Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Merelton:  Cycle 8 and 9 were really hard for me for just what you mentioned: I realized that I would be having a baby. Now we’re on cycle 11, and just found out that DH will be out of town for my entire fertile window. Next month we have an appointment with an RE. It’s devastating to know that if the universe would have lined up with us, we would have an infant right now–not the prospect of quite a bit of money going to getting pregnant. I wish I had encouraging words, but I CAN offer someone to be down in the dumps with. After all, misery loves company…and I’m definitely the perfect company right now.  

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Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Merelton:  Oh I’m so sorry! I’ve been TTC exactly the same amount of time you have. That is just the worst feeling every month when you realize AF is on the way.

I was also having thoughts about how we hoped to be having a baby by now. It definitely makes me sad. At this point I just hope it ever happens.

I’m sending big hugs your way!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Merelton:  I’m so sorry you’re feeling so down. I’m just on cycle 6 and it’s hit me very hard this month. I’m spending many a day all teary at my desk and damn bloody miserable. Try and do something that you couldn’t do if you WERE pregnant and have a little middle finger up moment to this TTC lark. I hope the Dr was able to offer you some help 🙂 Sending you lots of hugs xx

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