(Closed) Drama and music

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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443 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m speechless, and have nothing constructive to say about the financial situation going forward. But as to changing the father/daughter dance so soon before the wedding because you are so (rightfully) upset, let me share a line from a book I just started reading that I haven’t been able to get out of my head: “When death, the great Reconciler, comes for us all it is never our tenderness of which we repent but our severity.”  Keeping the song as it is doesn’t endorse his behavior, but allows you to rise above it. But with what he’s put you through, no one can judge you regardless of your choice. 

Post # 4
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1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@DrG_MrsB:  How about “Isn’t she Lovely” by Stevie Wonder

Post # 5
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

My fiance is worried that his parents won’t like mine anymore once they find out.

say what?  so instead of being your rock because i know i would be a mess he ends up saying a shitty thing like this.  sorry, i had to get that out of my system

im sorry people have let you down so close to the finish line – i hope you figure it out and enjoy your day *hugs*

Post # 6
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312 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’d consider just cutting the father daughter dance all together. 

Post # 7
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255 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@bythebook: 

“let me share a line from a book I just started reading that I haven’t been able to get out of my head: “When death, the great Reconciler, comes for us all it is never our tenderness of which we repent but our severity.” “

This is such very, very good advice, and could be applied to many situations that crop up during the wedding planning.  🙂

Post # 8
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263 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I don’t have any advice to speak of, I just wanted to say I am so sorry they waited until the last minute to drop this on you. If it were me I’d probably cut the father/daughter dance all together. Whatever you decide, good luck and again, sorry you have to deal with this.

Post # 9
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11353 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

I have no helpful advice to offer, but I just wanted to say how sorry I am that you are having to go through this emotional turmoil, logistical nightare, and extreme financial stress the week before what is supposed to be the happiest day of your life up to this point in time. I hope somehow things can be resolved over the next few days.

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