(Closed) Drama when you don’t mail all your invites at the same time??

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
5786 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

I staggered my invites and I only had one hiccup. One of my friends got his invite and immediately called one of my other friends to coordinate plans. Only problem was the second friend was on the B list. I just made something up about being lazy and sending my invites out as I addressed them. Of course, the second friend immediately got bumped to the A list since I didnt want to make the situation any more awkward.

Post # 4
566 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

We’re staggering only because we’re making them ourselves, and it’s just taking longer than anticipated. Plus, we only have half of the addresses for our guest list so far.

The plan is to make SURE everyone who knows each other gets their invites mailed at the same time. So it’s ok if my family gets their invites but not his, as we have no mutual family friends, but I’m definitely making sure that each little circle of friends gets mailed out as a group. Definitely do not need the drama of people thinking they are not invited, or on a B list or whatever.

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