- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
So, I was excited for my bachellorette party, until recently…
My Maid/Matron of Honor asked what my ideal party would be, and I answered that a girls weekend away would be awesome. I am planning my wedding single-handedly, as Maid/Matron of Honor is super busy with 2 kids, one bridesmaid doesn’t really seem to care about the wedding, and other bridesmaid (FSIL) is out of town. I was really looking forward to letting loose with some of my girlfriends, and having a great time.
I find out that she did in fact plan a weekend away, destination unknown to me…. I also found out that the guest list is:
My mom, mom’s friend she’s demanded must come along
Maid/Matron of Honor, MOH’s mom, one bridesmaid and me.
Basically half of the guest list are people I don’t wan there, and who are much older than me.
None of my girlfriends are coming, besides the two in the wedding party.
I wish knowing that everyone had RSVP’d “No”, that she would have just cancelled. As an added insult, almost all of my friends have also RSVP’d “no” to my wedding.
I will try to make the best of it for MOH’s sake, but right now, I jut feel like crying.
I’m the type of person that will cross hell or high water for my friends, and have proved it on several occasions. I wish I could have that reciprocated on the most important day of my life. I guess I’m not worthy.