(Closed) Dreaming about the exes-what the heck and why?!!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
11395 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I am no expert but don’t read into it.

I have had weird dreams about exes. Mind you my husband & I have been together for almost 6 years & started dating when I was 15.. FIFTEEN. So my last “ex” before him I was 13. LOL

I remember your post from a couple days ago so maybe you are just really stressed & have alot on your mind. Dreams are weird & we cannot control them. But your dream is not letting you know you are in love with an ex. The guy I dreamed about I dated when I was 13. THIRTEEN. lol I never loved him & my dream was not trying to tell me anything. It was a weird random dream, that is all.

Post # 4
11395 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Also let me add again, stress can cause really vivid dreams I believe! So all of your dreams could be adding up to you just having alot on your mind. Try to relax before bedtime!

Post # 5
506 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I used to have dreams like that too. I wondered if it was just some part of my mind sorting out the fact that I was committing myself to one person for the rest of my life.  (After so many years of serial relationships.) Also, while I certainly wouldn’t want to be with anyone else, there were a few good aspects about the exes I dreamt about and I probably needed to let go of the things I did like about them that are a bit different from my guy now. 

Post # 6
1465 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

The old southern interpretation is the people you are dreaming about is never about them it is about the opposite. For example if you were dreaming about your mate then it would be your ex’s.

Post # 8
7103 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

I think it must be pretty common.  I have dreams about two abusive exes.  In both cases the guys think we’re together, it’s always congenial.

Makes no real sense to me.  I’ve been with Darling Husband for 9yrs now and he has always been deeply respectful toward me, it’s his nature.  Heck, my therapist even told me I finally hit the jackpot this time.

So I think the ex dreams are maybe, for me, just making that point.  Especially since I feel no strong emotion toward the very abusive exes in the dreams.

My question would be, when you dream about an ex, what emotions are you having?

The topic ‘Dreaming about the exes-what the heck and why?!!’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors