Post # 1
Do you ever have sexual dreams about men other than your FI?
I had one last night, very vivid and I’m wondering why and if this is normal? It was just incredibly vivid and when I woke up, I was so shaken up by this.
Post # 3
It’s normal. You really can’t always control or predict what happens in your subconscious mind. You don’t need to feel bad about it. You can even feel good about it if you want. 🙂
Post # 4
Happens to me from time to time. I really don’t think it means anything. Now if I was spending my whole day thinking about those people, talking to them, asking to meet up with them, etc, then that would be an issue.
Post # 5
I actually just watched a PBS documentary about this yesterday. It’s normal, and often vivid dreams are the dreams from REM sleep. Scientists think that our REM dreams are more connected to our emotions, because that part of the brain is activated. It’s normal to dream about having sex with other men (or women, if you’re into that also… not as common if you’re not).
You can’t control it, so don’t worry about it! 🙂
Post # 6
Thanks for the reassurance. It’s not the first time but it was just startling because it was really…arousing, for lack of a better word. And I woke up like oh my gosh, that was a DREAM? I don’t think I’ve ever had a dream that seemed so realistic.
Glad to know this isn’t anything to be worried about! Thanks bees 🙂
Post # 7
Dreams are just that: dreams. They are a random mesh-up of various topics our daily lives, often in no way we would think when awake.
Yes, on occasion I’ve had sexual dreams about someone I was not “with”. I’ve also been in various people’s bodies in my dream, and sometimes I’ll start out with the view of one person and by the end of the dream I’m seeing it through someone else’s eyes.
Post # 8
It happens to me at least once a week. Usually it’s an ex, sometimes it isn’t. I like having them 🙂
Post # 9
I had a sex dream about one of FI old roomates and I was SO not attracted to him at all.
It was the weirdest thing and I was totally freaked out lol
So, you’re not alone 😀
Post # 10
Oddly enough, I came across an article about this TODAY. lol, the article I read said that the man you’re “cheating” with is usually a symbol of what is taking up time your husband should be getting. So if you’re spending tons of extra time at the office, you might have a dream that you’re cheating with a guy from work.
Totally makes sense lol!
Post # 11
All the time. either an ex or my boss lmao which I am not attracted in the least but we work alot of hours togeher lol
Post # 12
yes, one with my FI’s best friend and business partner. We actually get along great in real life and share a lot in common. It’s like I’m a girl version of him and my FI found me lol. VERY WEIRD. Anyway, I kept that to myself. Obviously.