(Closed) Dreams about cheating

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
3969 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@missjuli:  I have totally had a dream wherein my SO cheated and I was devastated… but he has NEVER cheated or even given me reason to believe he did. I told him about it, and he was like… don’t worry, never ever! Just really unsettling is all!

Post # 4
1471 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I have had dreams where my husband cheated on me and where I have cheated on my husband.  Sometimes I know the person, sometimes its an old boyfriend, or sometimes its some random guy.  Most of the time in my dreams I remeber about my husband like he is in the back of my head and then when I wake up I feel so guilty like have done something wrong.  Or if I had a dream that my Husband cheated I wake up angry with him…..

Neither of us has ever cheated on the other, I never worry about my husband cheating and there are a ton of sparks between us.. We are not insicure about our relationship, I dont know why we have thse dreams but its nice to know that others have this same problem!! 


Post # 5
87 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I wouldn’t read into it honestly. I have risque dreams all the time – sometimes about Fiance but often about random other people. Sometimes I even tell him, like “OMG guess who I had a dream about last night?” and we’ll laugh because it’s not anyone I would be attracted to. I think the mind just combines recent thoughts with old memories into a weird mish mosh. I don’t think it means you are unsatisfied or unhappy – I obviously love Fiance dearly too! But I think it is also human nature for the mind to wander, even in the happiest of monogamous relationships. There’s no law that said you can’t find other people attractive – as long as you don’t act on it of course Tongue Out

Post # 7
1676 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I wake up angry about things I’ve dreamed too. I always feel like such a dork. Glad I’m not alone at least. 🙂

Post # 8
162 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’ve had those dreams too! Usually I can brush them off but sometimes I get upset at my dream-self for being a floozy.Embarassed

Are you taking melatonin or any other sleep aids? Those can cause some really freaky dreams.

Post # 9
1552 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Don’t worry, tha same happens to me and my Darling Husband.

He someyimes waked up and says “i dreamed i had sex with someone else, i feel so guilty”

and i just tell him to hush.

No big deal, you cant control what you dream.

Maybe you’ve been frisky lately and that’s why you have erotic dreams (that happens to me a lot) but you can’t help who you dream about.

Don’t worry about it

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