(Closed) Dreams about the waiting process?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee

This has happened to me several times over the past month.

I have dreamed twice about the proposal, and both times the dream included a hideous/weird ring (one was huge and bronze-coloured, the other one was made of black paper WTF??). In another dream, we were engaged and blissfully happy, then I woke up and realised it was a dream πŸ™

I hope this is a signal that our subconscious minds sense that something is about to happen πŸ˜›

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I also have recurring dreams about ugly rings!!! I’ve had like 3 or 4 at least. So weird! Maybe i’ll google the meaning of this…

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I dream about the proposal alllllll the time! It is sad sometimes, when I wake up and realize that it was a dream, but I know it will happen soon…. But now even HE is starting to dream about it! Over the weekend he told me he dreamt about us getting married! Now when is he going to make it a reality???? hmmm…

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I did a little google search, I didnt’ find anything really insightful about what dreaming about an ugly ring, or the proposal process means (besides you’re anticipating it of course) but i was astounded at the number of girls writing in about dreaming about getting an ugly ring. Interesting!

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

ha ha! thanks for posting this, i’ve been dreaming more and more about getting engaged and married. last night i had a dream that my boyfriend was arranging our wedding but completely skipping a proposal! i woke up confused after that one!

i dream often about the ring. usually its a tacky ring and my most memorable dream was when i dreamed that it was a flashing plastic ring. it initially looked like it was in a Tiffany box but the ring was gross! its was like this toy ring flashing green and red.

i studied psychology for 3 years and know a lot about free association. my interpretation of my dream was that i might not get the ring from anywhere i expect to and that the green and red colours might indicate a proposal at christmas? try and use free association on your dreams, what sticks out what season is it, do u recognise where you are? have fun with it, its got to entertain us while we are waiting!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’ve been having engagement dreams/nighmares.  It’s driving me crazy, ’cause I don’t want to talk to you SO about it and him think I’m totally obsessing over getting engaged.  I just wake up annoyed all the time with it.

Post # 10
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Helper bee

@BlueRidgeMere: I told BF about the ugly bronze ring, and he just laughed and said that if I don’t behave he will get me me a ring like that haha. He’s so adorable πŸ™‚

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I have had quite a few dreams about the actual proposal and I had the most vivid dream about walking down the aisle and could actually feel the happiness as I did so. I woke up and just laid there for ages going “wow” because it was so real.

I think it is all just our sub conscious telling us that we want this real soon!

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

i agree that ur dreams often reflect wats ur thinkin abt subconciously.. 

Post # 13
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

i’ve been having a lot of dreams lately too. i think it definantly reflects what we are thinking about subconsciously.  

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

I feel your pain on the “only dating a year”…*sigh*

And about the dreams, I’ve had many many marriage/wedding dreams since being with my BF. I started literallly dreaming about getting married and my wedding day just 3 months into our relationship! Before I even knew I wanted to marry him. 

I also had a dream that some random european guy (who I don’t know in real life) proposed to me and I accepted, after my current BF took too long so I was single again πŸ™

Also a nightmare that I cheated on my BF. Which I would never do!

I also had a dream that my BF was proposing and my mom was coming over at the same time, and we had to hide the ring becuase he hadn’t talked to her yet.  And a dream that my BF was playing with my niece and nephew  at my dad’s house.  They all live thousands of miles away from each other, by the way…

He’s literally the “guy of my dream”, I guess πŸ™‚

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Another one who has “only been dating a year” – my SO comparing himself to my friends who are marrying their childhood sweethearts who were together seven years is NOT helpful LOL. I had the worst dream the other night – luckily my SO saw the bright side of it.

I was standing at the alter waiting with SO to say our vows and our guests would NOT stop talking. I counted down from 10. No dice, the guests kept talking. I cleared my throat and said loudly that I was still waiting for quiet. Didn’t work. I stood there pointedly checking my watch and the guests finally started to be quiet.

Could you tell that I’m a teacher? It’s my professional and wedding nightmares combined!

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