Post # 1
Every time I have a dream about my husband they involve:
1. him not paying attention to me
2. him leaving me
3. him flirting with another girl
4. him choosing another girl over me
5. him cheating on me
& the only times I have any sort of “romantic” dreams they don’t involve HIM (typically just a made up person)
How much do you believe in dreams, because nothing in ‘every day life’ makes me wonder/suspect any of the above things, ever.
Post # 3
That happens to me, too. I think it’s just that FI/DH leaving us or ignoring us is one of our fears, so that’s what plays out in our dreams. I would say it’s not pleasant, but it’s also not a big deal.
Post # 4
Ah I just want to make sure I am not alone in this. You are right.. it IS my biggest fear. Sometimes I do wake up sad/angry but get over it quickly enough.
Post # 5
I have those kind of dreams too. Like jo.lee said, it’s just a fear you have playing out in your dreams. I wouldn’t worry about it!
Post # 6
I have those dreams too. Whenever I have one I tell him “I’ve had a terrible dream!” and he immediately asks “What did I do?” It has become somewhat of a joke but after I tell him he always reassures me that those things won’t happen and he really won’t leave me at a restaurant to make out with a girl in the coat room. And then we laugh and have a nice cuddle.
I’ve always had upsetting dreams when I’m worried, it used to be misplacing something important or all of my teeth falling out, now they are about losing him.
Post # 7
I suppose I have somewhat similar dreams, but am I the only one who has bad dreams about their hubby being eaten by zombies?
Post # 8
Same issue- don’t worry about it.
For me my dream hubby is a a jerk but my real hubby is a dream!
Post # 9
@NYE Gal: ditto !
And OP it’s happened to me too !
I use dream moods dictionary (google it like that) and put in any key symbols. For example, I put in candle yesterday and it said “good luck is coming your way”
It’s obviously just for fun, but some people do give symbols in dreams merit !
Post # 10
@bonsai_spork: i do!! Haha I have ridiculous zombie dreams and 9 times out of 10 the zombies eat my SO! lol
Post # 11
I agree. I have those too & I think it’s anxiety driven.
Post # 12
@sassy411: Its gotta be, I’ve been having them almost every night lately (moving + holidays + wedding planning = me being a stressed out basket case)