Post # 1
Through my journey of my upcoming wedding I fell in love with the Sophia Tolli Jillian dress. I abosolutly love the way it looks, but I can’t find it anywhere except for online. I don’t want to purchase a dress online and it doesn’t look good on me and then have to return it. So I decide to go and try other dresses and I found a dress that I wasn’t expecting to buy. The dress I purchased is exactly the opposite of what I wanted, but I fell in love or strong like with anyway. Everyone that were with me started crying and it made me cry, so I purchase it on the spot. Now when all the emotions and crying are over I’m starting to doubt my purchase. I still love the way it looks on me, but I don’t think it is the one. I’m still thinking that the Jillian dress is the one for me, what should I do?
Post # 3
@MrsDance51113: Do you have pics of the dress you purchased? If so post them!
I’m not a fan of buying dresses without trying them on…. Looks like your wedding is only about 4 1/2 months away… 5/11/13? I doubt you’d have time to order another dess anyway unless you found it used. It usually takes 6 months or so for dresses to come in. I suggest if you are still stuck on wanting the Sophia then start making your decision quickly!
Post # 4
If you have a photo, that would help. Like weddingbound said, it might not be possible to get the dress by your wedding, but you COULD rush it if you think its the one. Dont settle if you have doubts.
But you really should try it on, or a style similar to it before you make that decision. Also, try your other gown on again to see if it stirs up feelings still.
As a bride with dress regret, I chose not to settle. I am actually getting my second dress made by a reputable replica shop. I figured, I like my original dress, I Llove what will hopefully be my new dress, and I will have 2 to chose from. Best case, the repica comes out splendid and I can sell my other, worst case, I stick witht he original dress, but didnt break my wallet.
Post # 5
I had reservations about buying my dress because I was afraid I would fall in love with something else. My mom asked me, is it beautiful? Do you feel beautiful in it? I said yes to both and then she asked, what else do you need? I thought about it and agreed, as long as I feel beautiful what else is there? There is always going to be another dress, another car, another house, even another man but you have to decided on one. Be happy with the decision you made and remember you will look beautiful no matter and will be happy on your wedding day.