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  • poll: Which is your favorite on me?
    Satin Strapless $1100 : (34 votes)
    30 %
    Lace with the matching bolero $2590 : (79 votes)
    70 %
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    I've always been a "classic" person style wise.  I'm grace kelly and Audry hepburn not some fashionista always on the latest trends.  I love Ralf Lauren and Banana Republic... That being said, I love the classic ball gown. Going into shopping I loved the dresses with a satin skirt and lace overlay top.  Not all lace.  I love structure and clean lines. So, I like these both, the waist of dress one is dropped a bit lower than I would personally prefer but it's not a dress killer. Going off just the knowledge that my FI and I are both "classic" people.. and both are fitting yet completely different, which do you like more?

     One of them is almost twice the price.  But I won't say which because if it will be THE dress I'll make it work, it's not a budget killer.

    Settings: Catholic full nuptial mass.  Reception in art gallery atrium that has high ceilings and a very natural elegant feel.  Real tree's line the dance floor.

    Dress One: Attachemnt: Dropped Waist / love the back.  Elegant but dropped waist.  Love the back but may be hard to find a bolero for church.

     

    Dress Two: One with matching bolero, one without

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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    They are both beautiful, but there is something about the bottom of the first dress I don't like. 

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    I really like the lace dress!  It is so beautiful!  And the veil with it makes it so much better.  Either way you can't go wrong, they're both great but that's my pick.  Good luck!

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    I think both of these dresses work within your "classic" guidelines.  My personal preference is for the all satin one, as I think it highlights your assets to maximum effect!  Both look great on you, but I do think the second one (all satin) is slightly more classic.

    Best of luck, you've got great choices to work with!

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    I'm at the airport so I may be missing for a few hours when I board the plane :-) But, I really like both... one of these will be "THE" dress. I just don't know which... help!

     
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    Osakagrl    May 8th 2010   Sacramento , CA

    I LOOOVE the first one! Your like me and love that audrey hepburn feel and dress one def does it!! I would kill for a dress like that! ;)

     
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    Cole B    October 16, 2010   Northern Indiana

    I really love sweetheart necklines but I love the back of the satin dress. I think it also works well with your body.

    Oooo I just noticed we were date twins too!!!

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    Thanks Ladies!  Keep the votes coming, it's tied at 3! ahhhh

    Since both fit classic - let's stick with what looks best?

     
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    veganglam    January 5, 2013   Philadelphia; Wedding in NYC

    DEFINITELY the first one...so beautiful, romantic, and timeless!

     
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    Both are beautiful but I am drawn more to the all sating dress. I think it makes your body look perfect, while the other one hides it a little more!

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    And now we're tied at 5, haha.  Boy, I'm glad it's not just me torn on this one! lol

     
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    finnaroo    August 7, 2010   DC (living in nyc now)

    i think they both look amazing on you and are both gorgeous! i personally prefer the satin one and i think the dropped waist really suits your figure...but at the end of the day, which do you picture yourself walking down the aisle in? which is more comfortable and feels more "you"? when i was deciding between 2 dresses, that's what really helped me decide!

     
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    polkadot    May 22, 2010   DC

    They both look beautiful on you, but the lace one is really stunning.

     
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    limbobride       Midwest

    They're both really pretty but I like the first one better.  SOmething abotu the waist on the second one just doesn't sit well...

     
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    grace8367    September 6, 2009   Chicago

    I love the lace one but both look great on you

     
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    lostinthemission       cleveland

    I really love the lace one. It reminds me of a more modren Audrey Hepburn. I think it has more presence, and would work better with your venues.

     
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    prettyflowers    September 2010  

    I think the shape of the lace one with the bow around the waist does more for you.  I really like it and think it fits in with your classic look.

     
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    KateT    May 8, 2010   Naperville, IL/Getting married near Destin, FL

    I LOVE the first dress!!!  But I am always a sucker for lace... I think it is SO romantic!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    i love the lace!!! when i saw it i was like wow that's pretty the second dress is very pretty as well but defintiely not classic and timeless i think it's more modern sophisticated...

     
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    Rosie Girl    September 18, 2010   Montana

    First one for sure!!! LOVE the lace and neckline. Gorgeous! :)

     
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    smyley    May 2010  

    Satin one to me is more of a classic look.

     
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    krissycake    November 21, 2009   orlando,fl

    you look wonderful in both but i LOVE dress two!  it is so romantic and looks made for you =)

     
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    JoeBeth12    June 12, 2010  

    HANDS DOWN -- lace with matching bolero! The more natural waist -- oh, and that bodice/bustline -- is gorgeous on you, simply gorgeous.  You will love your pix forever!

     
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    Jessie516    May 16, 2009   Ann Arbor, MI

    I think they're both beautiful, but I like the satin one better on you! :) 

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    Now I'll throw in the "kink."


    Dress 1: satin - is $1100 incl. hollow to hem

    Dess 2: lace: $2590 before alterations.  No extra length or hemming needed.

     
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    fanatic888    10/16/10   Cincinnati

    I love the clean satin look.  Both dresses are quite classic but I really don't think the lace is worth an extra $1000 almost. 

    P.S. We're date twins!

     
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    ereeka80    June 5, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    I think the lace with the matching bolero is beautiful on you.  I like the sweetheart neckline, it gives you a better shape in the upper body area.

     
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    meliss    May 31, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    Normally I'm a sucker for lace and sweetheart necklines but based on those pics I like the all satin dress a lot better on you. The dropped waist makes your figure look smokin' IMO! Don't know if that matters to you but you look about two sizes smaller in that one. And I actually would've picked that to be the more expensive dress. Do you mind letting us who the designers are?

    The taffeta (?) skirt with the lace pattern bottom looks somewhat old-fashioned to me. I think I'd like it better if it was all lace. I know you said you're going for a classic look but I think the satin dress has a timeless style that will allow you to still look classic without necessarily looking dated, does that make sense? Of course ultimately it's whichever you like best that matters!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    for the price go with the satin one, i am rescinding my vote. there is not a 1500 difference, i was thinking they were both similarly priced...

     
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    prettylady    8/7/10   NC

    Wow I adore the first dress! Amazing.

     
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    lostinthemission       cleveland

    Which ever one you get you can always resell it to recoup some costs. Smile

     
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    msbuttons    May 30, 2010   Palm Harbor, FL

    Oh wow, at first glance, I LOVE the one with the lace. I think the sweetheart neckline is beautiful on you...definitely a plus! Could you have a sweetheart neckline added to the other dress? The other dress with the hollow to hem INCLUDED is such a great deal...that is usually a pretty expensive alteration (ugh, I had to pay for mine, I was not pleased)! Good luck with your decision!

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    thanks for the feedback, I'd love more.  I think what get's me is that even though it's a "silk taffeta" or something on the lace dress, I love it, it's gorgeous, but I don't feel like $2590.  With the Satin dress, it's officially only like $900 + 200 for added length/custom hollow to hem but I FEEL like $2500... 

    The Satin dress is Allure 8664

    Lace Dress is Paloma Blanca 4015 + the cost of bolero + veil

    Anyone seen a similar cheaper version of the lace dress? Or know if Paioma make's cheaper versions of their higher end dresses.. i.e. taffeta instead of "silk"

     
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    ereeka80    June 5, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    Paloma Blanca has a less expensive line, Mikaella.  You may want to check them out.  www.mikaellabridal.com.

     
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    ereeka80    June 5, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    oh and I forgot to tell you, check out style 1468 on Mikaella.  It looks somewhat similar to the style of the Paloma.  I also think 1460 is very Audrey Hepburn.

     
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    MyraG    August 14, 2010  

    I really like the first dress without the bolero. The second one is pretty but  I like the first the best. 

     
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    MissChirpie    August 2010   Minnesota

    I like the one with the lace top. It is so romantic and pretty, yet still classic.

     
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    peachesandtulips    May 22nd, 2010   Boston, MA

     I absolutely love the second dress, but I think both look beautiful on you and can be considered classic!

     
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    ErinMarguerite    July 2009   DC Area

    The dress with the lace top is absolutely stunning!  That'd be my choice if I were you.

     
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    Tulip61110    June 11, 2010   Philadelphia

    I usually prefer lace, but I actually like your satin dress the best.  It's simple and cleaner looking to me than the other dress.  I also think the back of it is fabulous.

     

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