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  • poll: Pick your favorite - 1 "Blue by Enzoani" lace or 2 "White by Vera Wang" blush organza?
    'Blue by Enzoani" lace : (89 votes)
    29 %
    "White by Vera Wang" blush organza : (213 votes)
    71 %
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    pink.sequins    October 1, 2011   NorCal

    So you may already know that Vera Wang launched her new line 'White...' at David's Bridal.

    I'm now torn between 2 dresses, a traditional Blue by Enzoani gown -- chantilly lace with beading and sequins -- and the blush organza beauty from White by Vera Wang.

    It's quite a pickle I'm in...tell me honestly, Hive - which do you prefer?Dress Dilemma - Please HELP! :  wedding dress enzoani vera wang Slide1

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    I love the Vera on you, has the umph factor.

     
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    stephanie63087    May 14, 2011   Fort Wayne, Indiana

    omg the vera!!!! its amazing on you!!! :)

     
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    MissTatas    August 6, 2011   Minneapolis, MN

    LOVE the Vera!!!

     
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    abbyful    June 7, 2011   Kansas City

    LOVE LOVE LOVE the Vera!

     
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    PopRox    September 17, 2011  

    Yes VERA!!!!

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    I think that the vera looks amazing on you! I do think though that both you and your FI have to be ok with a pink dress. It is so different I'd just think an extra minute to be sure you're okay with that :)

     
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    bells    June 26, 2011  

    You should get the vera dress in ivory! 

     
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    lox    May 2011   Baltimore

    Which one are you more comfortable in?

     
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    Miss OBG    May 2011  

    I love the Vera, and I think the color is amazing (and a little gutsy, which I love).

     
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    jayce    December 10, 2010  

    Oh my god, that blush Vera!!! And look at how rockin your body is in that silhouette!

     
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    beck2325    June 4, 2011   Phila PA

    the vera that color looks great on you...even though i am in love with the belt on the lace one

     
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    rainbow    January 1, 2011   Tampa

    Oh. My. God. I would plan another wedding for that pink Vera. MUST GET!

     
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    kaylee26    January 1, 2014  

    The Vera really shows off your figure.

     
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    ratana187    May 5, 2012   Tacoma, Washington

    @CorgiTales: I agree! You look amaaaaazing in the vera! But I'd see if my fiance was cool with a non traditional dress color. 

     
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    ddubzz    June 5, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    Vera in Ivory!  But if you're a less traditional bride, go for the blush!  :)

     
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    kermie    December 20, 2011  

    I've heard other brides complaining about getting the Vera Wang White dress for shorter people. That dress currently looks too long, find out if they can alter it first!!!

     
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    berkie    August 26, 2011  

    Get the Vera in that color!!!!!!!  Please do it!  You will make me so happy!!!~!

     
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    mcnetn3    August 13, 2011   North Carolina

    The Vera is very pretty on you, but I wouldn't be able to get over the color.  In my opinion, a bride should wear whatever she wants to her wedding, but for me that is a white/ivory colored dress.

    If you could find a dress like the vera (shape and unique factor), but wasn't pink, I'd think that would be the best thing ever.  It definitely exists.

    The enzoani doesn't do as much for your figure as the Vera does.

     
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    PollyPlanner    October 22, 2011  

    OMG Number 2!!!!  In that color!!  I totally would have gotten that if I saw it!!  IMO, number one does nothing for your figure.  You look amazing in the Vera!!

     
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    pink.sequins    October 1, 2011   NorCal

    I knew I could count on the Hive to come through on this one!  Thanks friends, I needed some reinforcement. If When I go for it, I'm going all the way blush.  Our reception is at the Santa Cruz boardwalk and the color reminds me of cotton candy.  Our wedding party will be outfitted in silver and gray and it would be so fun to be the pretty girl in pink!

    The votes so far are 3:1 for the Vera.  I took the advice of @CorgiTales and @ratana187 and asked the FI about pink for a wedding dress (without showing him the photos). He said if it made me happy then he would be happy.  He's SO supportive and I know he's being truthful.

    @lox: I think I'm more comfortable in the pink Vera Surprised I wore it for 45 min. in the salon and was sad to take it off, and didn't have those feelings in the Enzoani.

    @Miss OBGI don't know yet if I'm brave enough to do it!

    @beck2325: I love that belt, too! That's what pulled the look together, it's such a statement piece.  I wouldn't wear the Enzoani without it, which is why I'm not completely sold on it.

    @kermie: The consultant said they build the dress from your waistline and adjust the hem as they construct based on your measurements, so it would be proportional and the right length for my short self.

    @berkie: Thanks for the encouragement! I'm thinking I want to go for it, but it will take a few days to sink in.

    @mcnetn3: I appreciate your candid feedback. You can see I'm struggling between the opposite ends of the spectrum.  The Enzoani makes me feel like what's expected of me, or the image of myself that I try to project, and the blush Vera is the real me exposed. I had no idea a piece of clothing could be so emotional!

    All, thanks again. Your comments are so helpful. I'll keep you posted, this is not an easy or quick decision for me to make.

     
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    DRaeH2W    September 17, 2011  

    I third the opinion for the Vera in Ivory!

     
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    mcnetn3    August 13, 2011   North Carolina

    You should check out pronovias dresses, there are some dresses with similar styling as the Vera, dropped waiste, unique details on the skirt, similar prices... that may give you the wow factor without the color.

     
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    Miss Bicycles    June 25, 2011   South Dakota

    Vera in Ivory....if possible :) gorgeous.

     
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    pengoala    September 4, 2011  

    I love the Vera!  It is so WOW on you! :)

     
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    bbe44    September 3, 2011  

    vera :)

     
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    baileysbride2be    May 5, 2012   Marengo, IL

    #2 all the way! I dont think its a dress that everyone can pull off but you do amazingly. It is also a much more up-to-date and younger look that suits you much better! And this is coming from someone who doesn't like all these new trendy dresses. You REALLY pull this one off beautifully!

     
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    Kemma    February 5, 2011   New Zealand

    I'm unsure about the pink but I love the Vera!

     
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    midnight17    August 18, 2012   Alberta, Canada

    The Vera in that colour! Beautiful!

     
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    truitjen    May 12, 2011   Nixa, MO

    Get the Vera! The color look amazing on your skin tone. I think blush is beautiful. Just stunning. And by the way you talk, you love it more. What helps me make a decision is giving FI 2 options then telling him to choose, like on centerpieces, if he chooses option 1 it makes me realize that i cant let go of option 2 i just needed someone to take it away for me to realize how much i wanted it. I have no clue if that makes any sense. lol. And obviously dont show FI your dress, someone else whose opinion you trust.

     
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    EsqBride5810    June 4, 2011   Chicago

    omg the Vera is so amazing!

     
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    pink.sequins    October 1, 2011   NorCal

    @truitjen: Great advice! As I process your comment, I'm realizing if he said that he preferred to see me in a traditional color I'd be disappointed. I know what I want/have to do, thanks for putting the decision in a simple format for me to "get" it.

     
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    baybejen    April 30, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    the vera does it for me. i'm a pink girl, and if i had the chance, i'd snatch one up for myself and wear that on my big day instead! lol =] good luck on your decision!

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    I know I am late to the party, but I also love the blush one on you. You look amazing in it. Just one thing though, I saw a post the other day where a bee purchased this dress and she commented that no one seems to know how to shorten it. Before you make your purchase, I suggest trying it on with the shoes and undergarments that you are going to wear on your wedding day, so you can make sure the length is good for you.

     
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    pink.sequins    October 1, 2011   NorCal

    @noritake22: I also saw her post about alterations...these dresses are causing quite a stir! My sales consultant seemed more confident, but I'm def. going to triple my due diligence before I go through with it.  Thanks!

     
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    kelmac    September 26, 2009   Ontario, Canada

    Vera :-)

     
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    dgb2010    December 29, 2010   Leicestershire, UK

    i think you've made your decision! although u know i am biased! i think it totally depends what style your wedding is, if it fits in with this and also what your fiance will think (a little)

    last night i was showing my husband all the enzoani gowns on the website and he had some funny opinions about dresses! i'd hate him to look at my dress and think it was wierd - although ultimately its what u feel best in

    i personally dont like the bottom of the vera so much (contraversial i know) it looks a little unfinished to me, but i had a traditional wedding and so its just not completely my style

    however although i'm not a huge fan of pink gowns i think you rock that colour and it doesnt look like your a berbie princess or anything which i sometimes think if i see a bride in pink - its a very classy shade of pink

    although it is traditional to go with ivory/white - it is a lot easier to wear a pink gown to another event and i knew i wouldnt get another opportunity to wear a long ivory gown other than my wedding day

    just my 2 cents for you! feel free to completely ignore it

    good luck choosing

     
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    kitzy    June 2011  

    i LOVE the vera -- especially in that color!

     
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    lox    May 2011   Baltimore

    @pink.sequins: In that case, what I would do is irrelevant. You should get the Vera because you clearly love it. ;)

     

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