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Dress Regret - Now a two dress bride

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    fallbridetobe2013    September 14, 2013   Nova Scotia, Canada

    I have been experiencing the dreaded dress regret for quite some time now.  I bought my dress prematurely for our September 2013 wedding thinking it was "perfect" and it was such a good deal, I couldn't pass it up.  

    Since I purchased the dress I have worked extremely hard to lose at least 15 pounds. This weekend I had a complete dress-meltdown and realized my original dress wasn't right for me.  It doesn't flatter my body or show off all the hard work I've put into losing weight.  I didn't want to spend the money on another dress but I want to feel beautiful on my wedding day and I knew putting on my original dress wasn't going to do it for me.  I was fortunate enough to find a gorgeous Maggie Adorae second-hand and purchased it right away.  I think it it much more flattering and I feel like I've picked the right dress this time around.

    Here's a pic of my old dress:

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    The pictures aren't that flattering but you get the idea.

    I think I made the right choice.  What are your thoughts?

     

     
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    TatianaK    September 7, 2013  

    The second dress looks so much better on you! I am personally not I fan of the skirt on the first, but I also agree that it did not flatter your body as well as the second. Congrats!

     
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    moneekw    August 23, 2013   Upstate New York

    LOVE the second dress on you! Great choice!

     
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    fallbridetobe2013    September 14, 2013   Nova Scotia, Canada

    @TatianaK:  Thank you!!  I liked the bodice of the first one but I think it's the skirt which I realized I hate.  It's too wide and I feel like the dress swallows me up.  I also realized I hated the pick-ups as well as the rosettes on the skirt.  

     
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    fallbridetobe2013    September 14, 2013   Nova Scotia, Canada

    @moneekw:  Thanks!  I feel sexy in this dress and it feels more "me".  

     
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    FortiesFlare    June 22, 2013   Ontario, Canada

    You made a fantastic choice, I can see all the hard work you've put in in the second dress. You look fabulous!

     
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    jwilk241    October 12, 2013   VB

    You made a great choice!! Personally, I love the new dress like a thousand times more than the original dress!

     
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    PacificMrs    May 3, 2013   St Helens, Oregon/Wedding in Lincoln City, Oregon

    Oh yeah, LOVE the Adorae! You look stunning in both of them, but it's time to show off that figure that you worked so hard for!

     
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    peonyinparis    March 2014   Beijing

    Much prefer your new dress! A lot more flattering.

     
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    sharky    September 1, 2013  

    yes second dress!

     
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    TaurianDoll    August 24, 2013   Maryland

    Right decision. Second dress looks great!

     
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    gelaine22    September 2, 2013   new jersey

    Much better! I love the second dress!

     
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    sayingyestothedress    August 24, 2013  

    Dress #2 is SOOOOOO much better! What are you going to do with the first dress?

     
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    fallbridetobe2013    September 14, 2013   Nova Scotia, Canada

    Thanks Ladies.  You are all confirming that I made the right decision.  

     
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    fallbridetobe2013    September 14, 2013   Nova Scotia, Canada

    @sayingyestothedress:  I guess I'm going to try to sell it.

     

     

     
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    Olive12    October 6, 2012   Houston

    I think you made the right choice in getting the second dress. Dress #1 did nothing for you, and you look way better is Dress #2.

     
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    dovelovesfalcon    July 6, 2013   brooklyn, ny

    @fallbridetobe2013:  wow!  i hope you don't take offense to this, and i totally mean it in an great way- but you look about 3 sizes smaller in the new dress!  great choice!

     
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    jpalm13    May 25, 2013  

    Number 2 is better by miles and miles.

     
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    Pinkmoon    February 14, 2014   Canada

    You made the right choice! I too was a dress regret girl and I am sooooooo glad I changed. I love my new dress. 

     
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    madteaparty    June 8, 2013   Brick, NJ

    Your new dress is fantastic on you! Very flattering! Congrats on the weight loss!

     
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    new york bride 13    October 5, 2013  

    I LOVE the new dress!!!

     
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    tcgstar    August 31, 2013  

    Love the second dress!!! Great choice :)

     
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    CatyLady    June 19, 2011   England

    @fallbridetobe2013: Wow. Honey you sure did the right thing. Is the first dress the Sabelle? 

    @dovelovesfalcon:  +1

     
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    Britt_RN    April 22, 2013   Mexico DW

    I like the second one much more, good choice.

     
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    moniquaa    August 11, 2012   EDD October 28, 2013

    @fallbridetobe2013:  The second dress is so flattering, looks amazing on you!!

     
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    fallbridetobe2013    September 14, 2013   Nova Scotia, Canada

    @CatyLady:  It is not the Maggie SaBelle.  It's made by The Richman Group.  It's their Madison Collection.  I think it is a knock-off version of the SaBelle.  It's a gorgeous dress.  Just not the right choice for me.

     
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    fallbridetobe2013    September 14, 2013   Nova Scotia, Canada

    @CatyLady:  It is not the Maggie SaBelle.  It's made by The Richman Group.  It's their Madison Collection.  I think it is a knock-off version of the SaBelle.  It's a gorgeous dress.  Just not the right choice for me.

     
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    Talon    April 2015  

    That second dress looks amazing on you! You definitely made the right decision.

     
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    zoecn    July 19, 2014   Melbourne, Aust, wedding - Santorini, Greece

    @fallbridetobe2013:  I like the second one much more too. 

     
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    BooRadley    April 2013   Virginia

    Holy crap, I wouldn't have even guessed that was the same person.  You look so much better in the new dress!

     
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    Stargaze31    November 12, 2013   Colorado/ DW on Big Island of Hawaii

    I liked the first one. More elegant. Not a fan of mermaid type gowns, personally.  But you need to wear what you love, and you look very nice in the second dress. :)

     
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    CatyLady    June 19, 2011   England

    @fallbridetobe2013: Thought it looked like the Sabelle. Only know it as when I tried my dress on for alterations the girl next to me tried The Sabelle on and chose it, I then recommended it to a friend

     
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    amazingbee    March 22, 2014  

    i love the second one better!

     
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    BlondeBee    February 22, 2014  

    The second one is SO much more flattering. We can see your figure (fantastic) and it's so chic. Plus, the first one looks like it's wearing you, not the other way around. Great decision!

     
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    little_d    April 21, 2013   Vancouver- wedding on Maui

    Definitely made the right choice- you look amazing! All the pickups on the first seem a bit old school to me, but that's just imho.

     
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    jltoth    January 25, 2014  

    I usually think people are crazy for having dress regret, but in this case I think you made a fantastic choice.  The second dress flatters you so much better and looks beautiful on your body!

     

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