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I personally think that is a beautiful dress on you and looks very feminine. You could add a sash or a beaded belt. I am not sure what your taste is like but there are several ways to modify a dress as I have noticed since I joined WB. These girls will have other fabulous ideas.
((Hugs)) Sorry you dislike your dress so much, thats a horrible feeling, I have been there. But it truly is a beautiful dress
I really like the layering on the skirt! Maybe could you get a lace bolero jacket to wear with it? Or pin a brooch or a big fabric flower to the waist ruching? Or maybe lots of smaller fabric flowers on the skirt? Mrs. Avocado did the brooch thing, and I thought it looked lovely.
I did a quick look on Etsy.com and here are 2 things that I was kind of talking about. I personally think the beaded belt right under the breast area would glam it up a lot. If I were you and you truly didnt feel you had any other options for a different dress I would def check out esty.com, they have a lot of neat stuff that may help
A sash would work well with that dress. Delicate jewelry would also add a feminine touch. I like this dress on you, I love the clean lines. I'm sure you will be able to make it more "you".
I think it's gorgeous!! I love the tiers of fabric, and I think it shows off your (fabulous) shape. As shannon said, there are definitely ways to add a little "something extra" if you think the dress needs it. If you're worried about it not being romantic/feminine enough, I think a pretty sash would help, as would a really soft, flowy hairstyle and some pretty earrings. I went through a period of hating my dress as well--I hope you love it again soon!
OMG I love your dress, and I think it's really flattering. You look so tall and thin. Maybe we should trade dresses, lol.
But seriously, if you won't be confident then maybe you should start looking again. Yes you might lose your deposit, and you might have to consider a lower budget dress if you end up buying a second one, but the most important thing is that you feel beautiful on your wedding day. We can tell you how beautiful you look in this dress til the cows come home (because it's true!) but if you don't feel beautiful, than that's all that matters.
If you want to stay with this dress, then I think a floral belt like the one that Shannon posted would be a good option. A white one with shear chiffon flowers would look really pretty I think. Plus, you could always play with your veil/fascinator/whatever to change the look of the whole outfit.
Maybe check with the alterations folks to see if you can add a lace overlay to the skirt tiers? That might romanticize it a little more.
I'm sorry you don't like your dress - if nothing else is working, maybe check with the bridal salon to see if you can apply your deposit to a new dress?
I think your dress is both feminine and romantic!! And its VERY flattering on you! Maybe adding the veil and some beautiful jewlery will give it what you are looking for? Or a sash would be nice too! In the end though if you arent happy with it and you are able to buy something else, then do whatever makes you happy!
I LOVE the flowered sash shannon posted!!!! I think it's hard to see yourself in a bridal gown period - ie, no veil, jewelry, etc. They really glam it up and make the look "complete." I think a sash in a slightly different color than your dress (maybe a wedding color, or a silver, etc) and a veil would make this perfect!
I never post on these types of threads, but I just have to say that your dress is beautiful!! I think it looks wonderful on you. I am not a strap person, but that is a dress I would definitely consider wearing, and the layering on the skirt and the way the straps go into the waist part (so technical, i know lol) is both flattering AND sexy! I mean it helps that you are stunning and would probably drop jaws in a burlap sack, and you DO have to feel comfortable in your own skin on your wedding day, but that dress is beautiful and it is beautiful on YOU!
I think you look BEAUTIFUL! You look tall and thin and elegant and graceful, and your body is shown off to great advantage! Have you been in the dress since you first bought it? Because I think I can relate to what you're going through. I loved my dress when I bought it (and REALLY loved the price), but as time went buy I started worrying that I had purchased too soon and hadn't spent enough time and money to get the perfect thing. Then I had my first fitting, put it back on, and was reminded of ALL the reasons that I bought it in the first place. So my friends took lots of pictures and I went home happy. Then a few weeks went by and I looked at the pictures again and started worrying again that maybe it wasn't quite right and maybe I should have gotten something else. But then I had another fitting, and it fit even BETTER that time and I loved it even more. So basically, every time I'm not wearing it, I'm worried about it, but when it's on, I feel wonderful. Could this be what's happening for you? Could you maybe go and put it on and see in person how great it looks on you, and then feel great about it all over again? It really is GORGEOUS on you!! ((HUGS)) I'm sorry you're having a hard time!
Awwwww I'm really sorry that you are going through this!! I agree with the other ladies that you look so thin and beautiful in the dress, but I know hearing that doesn't make it any easier if you don't like the dress. I can think of a couple of things that you could try....one of the other ladies suggested a sash which may give a little something extra. Another idea was to add crinoline underneath to make the bottom a little more poofy or you could see what it looks like as an off-the-shoulder gown which is a very feminine look.
I was a 2 dress bride so I can totally understand your feelings about wanting to feel beautiful and confident in your dress. It helped me to remember that it is not about the dress at all and that none of your guests will really notice the difference between different gowns (unless they are also obsessed brides to be like us). The outcome will be the same no matter what you wear and no matter what may go wrong on the day...you will be married to the man of your dreams and look back someday and laugh about how you didn't like your dress. (((((HUGS))))))
I also think the dress is beautiful! Try the sash or beading ideas, that might help. If you do not think that is going ot work why don't you try selling it and then using that money for a new gown?
I think your dress is very pretty, simple but still girly, but I know at the store I purchased at I was considering buying a dress that they only had in a really small sample size so I asked them what I could do if it came in and didn't look right, and they said they would just add that dress to their floor samples/sale and I could have store credit to another dress. Maybe your store would do the same?
Ok I think it looks great but I know that it not what matters. It needs to be what you have dreamed of
My suggestion....try to find a used dress that you love. I kow you cannot afford to buy a new dress...but what about a used one? And youknow...use brides we wear them for only a day...so there are all in good shape
I would suggest looking at bravobride.com and wb. and ebay and craigslist and the knot. Maybe your dream dress is out there. And maybe if it's kidna cheap then it isn't that bug if a risk to buy it online and get a 2nd dress.
Good luck!
I hate that you feel this way. Sorry! =( Honestly I love your dress and think that you look fab in it. You are gorgeous and would look good in anything!! =) Maybe you will feel different once the dress comes in. Are you going to wear a veil? Maybe that would make you feel more girly. Or rather than a veil you good do a blingy head band/clip of some sort. Also the belts that Shannon posted from Etsy are so pretty! Good luck girl! It will all work out.
Also...can you take it into someone who alters dresses or maybe a play who custom makes dresses. They may have a lot of ideas about how you could change your current dress. That's another option. They have have ideas that the hive isn't even thinking of
Good luck! It WILL all work out. sometimes we have some hiccups along the way...but when you get to your wedding day...everything will have fallen into place :-)
love shannon idea... you can add a sash or some lace in the middle, your other otion is to sell it and buy another one if you really dislike this one.
my opinion is that this dress is beautiful and stunning and you look awesome in it... but at the end is your decision... good luck!!
I know other people have said this already and most likely it will not help the way you are feeling but you look phenomenal in that dress! I think it is gorgeous...I would wear it for sure! obviously if you don't feel good in it then you should try to add something like they suggested. Maybe next time you try it on...go in with your hair and makeup all done and try to get the "real" feel of the day! You really do look great in this dress...I think it IS flattering and it is very feminine!
Have you considered going back to the shop and asking if you can try your dress on again? Maybe seeing it again will make you feel better about it... I think its hard for anyone to have to wait so long from when they buy their dress until it comes in... you start having doubts because you don't even remember how it felt to have it on... (although you do have a picture...) It couldn't hurt to call the shop... then after you try it on again see how you feel....
I really like your dress! I think it looks great on you. I second trying a sash, that could make you feel more girly!
your dress is absolutely lovely. but if you do want to make it a little more romantic, i like the sash idea with some fabric flowers.
I think it's a pretty gown but I'm sorry you are not happy with it. maybe the bridal boutique can use the deposit towards another gown. Or you can jazz it up with a sash like some of the other ladies suggested. Side not I am selling my first dress and you are interested let me know. FYI, I am not trying to make a profit so I am willing to work with ANY budget. PM if you like it
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Honestly, I think that's a beautiful dress! I'm not just saying that to make you feel better either! I love the layers on the skirt! Like alot of other bees mentioned, you could add a sash. I made a shash for my dress...to add a little bit more "me" to it. Did you want a dress with straps? Maybe you could make it strapless? Honestly I don't think you need to change anything about it..but these are just some suggestions..
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I think that dress is beauiful and definitely girly! If you want an extra something I agree you could add a sash or belt of some sort, but I truly love it just the way it is.
Yeah I agree witht he bees, it's very pretty, but if you feel it's plain make a whole new dress my adding a sash or belt, or killer jewelry that will really make you feel beautiful!
ooooh nooo, girlfriend i love it! i love the ruffles down from the bodice. it looks awesome on you! i know how you feel, it's a stressful time in these months leading into july, but seriously it looks amazing!
I'm so sorry you feel like it's not you- but I second the Bees who are mentioning that you can "dress it up" with accessories... here are a few more.
Both by Etsy Seller PercyHandmade
I also think you look beautiful in your gown. I also agree that a wide or decorative sash would make it into a whole new dress. I think you should go with a sash; maybe with your colors or with some bling. If it was my dress and I was going with a sash, I would make it as wide as possible with a drapey bow in the back.
I also think this is a lovely dress and looks great on you. How about a silk sash in a pretty color like noritake22 says? Reserve your judgement until you try it on.
I can't thank you all enough for all the ideas and kind words. Hugs to you all :)
I'm going to go back in to try the sample on with my hair and make-up done and some accessories on hand. Hopefully I'll be able to walk away with a smile and peaceful heart.
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Hi Ladies,
I guess my situation is fairly common. My wedding is in July and I hate my dress. I don't even know why I purchased it as it's not "me" at all. I was really stressed out due to financial issues when I made the decision to go with the dress, so I think money was the real motivator. My uncertainty about the dress literally set in the night I got home. That was in October. I can't count the times I've sobbed thinking of my wedding day in this dress. I always imagined feeling beautiful and confident, but all I feel is sad and insecure. The dress won't arrive until mid-March. We're on a budget and I already paid the $550 deposit that is non-refundable. I attached some photos so you can see. It's not feminine and romantic at all. Not to mention how unflattering it is. I don't know how I could have made such a huge mistake. Now I'm afraid that due to time and budget; I'll be left with no other choice than to wear this dress. :(
Could anyone give me some advice? I attached a photo. Does anyone see a way to make this dress more girly?
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