Post # 1
I went for my try on today, and my dress is too small!!!
They were able to zip the whole thing up, but I felt like if I exhaled, the dress would pop. I wasn’t sure if I gained weight or what, but the lady said the person who measured me was 1 inch off on all the measurements. She sound confident that she can "let it out" but I dunno. My dress has intricate details on the top (same dress as Ms. Cupcake)
Has this happened to anyone? can they actually let a dress out?
Here’s a photo of the dress
Post # 3
That is beautiful! Did your alterations person suggest putting in a corset (lace up) back? She would have to take out the buttons or zippers and replace it with laces.
Post # 4
No, she asked me to come back end of July to try it on again. She didn’t mention at all how she would let it out. I’m so depressed!
The laceup is a good idea, but I really loved the buttons 🙁 I still don’t see how she will be able to let it out. or am I just being cynical
Post # 5
I’m not sure if any of the excess fabric would have the beading or lace, but the dress might have generous seams. I had to have a dress let out once and all the seams had an extra quarter inch – all told, I think there was an extra 1.5-2 inches all around.
Post # 6
That is a lovely dress. When you tried on the dress, were you wearing spanx or other foundation garments? That may help a bit.
As for letting it out, the seams may have some allowance or the seamstress could put in extra fabric under the arms to allow more room to breathe.
Post # 7
I may be in your same shoes tomorrow. My dress came in and we purposely ordered the size that was just 1-2 inches too small (I was between sizes) and I am so worried that I’m not going to fit it and like yours, my dress has a ton of beading in the bodice.
Please keep us updated on the progress!
Post # 8
I think for letting the dress out an inch there should be enough room. However, since they made the mistake measuring you it should be their cost, not yours. I am in the middle of a kind of similar situation at the moment, but it’s with my grandmother’s dress for my wedding and it doesn’t fit by about 3 inches. The bridal salon won’t admit their mistake so it’s become a big problem. So, I completely feel your pain!
Post # 9
My aunt is a seamstress and has altered every BM dress I’ve ever worn.
I once ordered a size up and the dress came back HUGE- she had to basically remake it otherwise all of the boning would have been in the wrong places (imagine boobs pointing to my left and right instead of straight ahead).
She told me that in the future I should not order up if I’m in between. She said that most dresses she can just let out the seams and that takes care of it.
So hopefully your seamstress can do (maybe only in the back or underarm area so as not to disturb your beading).
Post # 10
Most dresses have at least 1/2" at the sides for each . That’s 2 full inches of wiggle room (two 1/2" on each seam, two seams total) on each side, so if you just need it taken out a little to let you breathe, I wouldn’t worry about it.
Your dress does have intricate beading/lacework on the bodice (and it’s a really beautiful dress btw!), so hopefully letting it out won’t disrupt the pattern. If it does, you could look into getting a corset back — not sure how that looks on a non-strapless gown though.
Here’s some more info that you might find helpful:
Post # 11
thanks for all the advice ladies.. I will definitely keep you posted. I do feel a little better hearing that dresses usually have extra seams on the side but I’m still upset that it was tight ! it made me feel fat. hehe.
My dad has a conspiracy theory that bridal shops do that on purpose to make money. haha..
Lillindy: I hope everything works out with your grandma! i have to take my mom dress shopping this week and now I’m thinking of buying something off the rack..
Post # 12
I am sure many brides out there are hoping to shed a few pounds in order to look there best on there special day. I guess you could say I am one of them… to an extreme. I bought a dress at the August 2009 “Running of the Brides” in Boston. I found a gorgeous dress in my street size, but not my dress size. I took the risk and I bought it thinking “I have over a year to fit into this thing! That’s more than plenty!” Well, now I’ve got less than 9 months and I’m still not fitting into the thing… there’s no Plan B. I’m wearing this dress! LOL. I need to make it happen. Any tips?
I started a blog (http://slimdownforthegown.blogspot.com/) where I’m documenting my progress and struggles. Feel free to check it out.
Post # 13
I suggest adding a corset, I know my lady does it on a fairly regular basis, that way if you do lose or gain a little it’s just a tie up adjustment :o)
Post # 13
coffeencupcakes: hello it’s been several years ago but what were your results? I’m having the exact same problem as we speak With my Casblanca Gown. The only thing is I wasnt measured, the bridal shop had me try on another Casablanca gown in the same style as the gown I wanted and the fit was perfect and they ordered from there. My dress came in about and was too small with me losing 11 lbs. feeling depressed