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Dressing the Mothers

posted 2 years ago in Family
  • poll: What are their dress lengths?
    Bridesmaids in long dresses, mothers in long dresses : (11 votes)
    19 %
    Bridesmaids in long dresses, mothers in short dresses : (1 votes)
    2 %
    Bridesmaids in long dresses. one mother in a long dress, other mother in a short dress : (1 votes)
    2 %
    Bridesmaids in short dresses, mothers in long dresses : (15 votes)
    25 %
    Bridesmaids in short dresses, mothers in short dresses : (11 votes)
    19 %
    Bridesmaids in short dresses, one mother in a long dress, other mother in a short dress : (5 votes)
    8 %
    I have no idea yet... : (9 votes)
    15 %
    Other! : (6 votes)
    10 %
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    I'm just curious as to how everybody else is dressing the mothers as compared to each other and to the bridesmaids! This is a length question rather than a color question, but feel free to share how you're handling that as well!

    The bridesmaids will be wearing long dresses, my mother will be wearing a long dress, but Mr. Scissors' mother's dress isn't decided yet. I just don't know if it would look silly or strange with one short dress. :p

     
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    whitesonnet    June 26, 2010   Detroit, MI

    My girls are in short dresses.

    My mom bought a long dress, FMIL hasn't bought anything yet. And my mom and grandmother both bought two dresses! One for the ceremony and one for the reception. In fact, my grandmother is wearing a short dress to the reception and I don't think I've ever seen her in a short dress!

    I don't think it'll matter much, to be honest. I'm more worried about my FMIL buying something really bright! She likes fuscia and aqua a lot lot.

     
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    JennHasFeet    October 30, 2010   Grand Rapids, MI

    do most brides dress their mothers? i can't imagine trying to pick out a dress for my mother, much less a dress for my FMIL. Do they have to match the bridesmaids?

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    I don't think that brides dress the mothers, per se, but I think typically there are just some general guidelines. I could be wrong. Some common rules/whatever are for them to not wear the same dress, not wear the bridesmaids' dress, not wear the same color as the bridesmaids, not wear white, and perhaps even not wear the same color. I think I covered all the bases.

     

     

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    My MOH is in a long dress, my mom is in a short dress and my FMIL is in a long dress...and I don't mind a bit ;) both the MOB and MOG dresses have jackets are are cute but very age appropriate as well. I wanted them to feel comforable. They *did* make sure the colors complimented though as well as the styles

     
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    I don't think it's silly if your FMIL wears a short dress.. june in GA is gonna be hot! :)

    My mom is wearing a short dress most likely, and FMIL probably will just so she can dance. She is serious about dancing apparently! The BMs will be wearing short dresses too!

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    True.dat. I guess she'll be the only one not sweating her nose off, since we're all long. :p

     
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    Mrs. Menard to Be    February 11, 2010   Kansas

    My BMs are wearing long dresses, so im hoping my mom and my fmil will wear short dresses. i dont want them to match the wedding party, but i dont really care if they do. My only rule for their clothing was "No white, off-white, ivory, eggshell, champagne, or any other shade of those colors." :)

     
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    krissybee    October 15, 2011   :: chicago IL ::

    yeah i think its totally fine if your mom is in a long dress and FMIL is in a short dress. no worries!! whatever is comfortable for her :)

     
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    cpgirl2000    April 25, 2010  

    My BM's are wearing tea length dresses.  My FI mom is wearing a dress to her knees and my mom is wearing dress pants and a dressy/fancy top.  It really depends on body types and what people are comfortable wearing. 

     
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    Chillmer    May 30, 2010   Milwaukee

    My bridesmaids and both Moms are wearing short dresses.

    Both of them are driving me crazy, though.  FI's Mom wants to wear flat sandals and a navy blue dress with long sleeves?  Our colors are all pastel.  My Mom cannot decide and is emailing me a different dress every day.  GRR.

     
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    missjyc    September 18, 2010   macomb, michigan

    both my BM's and the moms will be in long dresses :)

     

     
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    Tulip61110    June 11, 2010   Philadelphia

    My BMs and my mom will be wearing a short dress.  My FMIL will be wearing a long dress.  I think it will look fine.

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    My bridesmaids are wearing short dresses and the moms are both wearing long dresses.  I had no idea if there were any sort of rules/guidelines for this...I just knew both moms wanted long dresses.

    As for colors, my bridesmaids are wearing bright pink/watermelon and my mom is wearing a clover green.  I think that complements nicely.  His mom is wearing salmon.  I have no idea how that fits in, but who cares ;op

     
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    sboston06    October 10, 2010   Boston area

    My bridesmaids are in long dresses, but my mom is very petite and wanted to wear a short dress.  I wanted her to be comfortable so I don't really care what she wears.  The other two moms (my stepmom and FMIL) will be wearing long dresses because that's what they're comfortable in.

     
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    fourpeass    August 14, 2010   New Haven, CT

    I picked short dresses for the BMs because it's too hot in August for long dresses. I'm not even wearing a long dress. I told my mom and FMIL they can wear whatever they want and they decided to pick out short dresses for the same reason. 

     
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    The immigrant bride    June 25, 2010   Santa Barbara, CA/Los Angeles, CA

    My mom is wearing a teal knee lenght dress that id really beautiful. I don't know about my mother in law yet. I think the most important thing is that they wear something that flows with the wedding. I went to a wedding where the MOB was wearing a bright pink short dress and the MOG a long lacy brown dress!!!

     
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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    I don't have to worry about this one, luckily.  Winter wedding = ALL long dresses!

     
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    Miss Sayrah    May 30, 2010   Charlotte, NC

    bridesmaids in long dresses, mothers in pants *gasp* ! Both of our moms are "plus size" and they both said that they would prefer to wear pants. Honestly, there aren't many options for plus sized MOB/MOG unless they are these overly flowy/ snuggie like dresses... neither the FMIL or Mama wanted to wear that stuff and I don't blame them! They will rock some pants at the wedding:]

     
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    sloth    May 14, 2011   Philadelphia, PA

    We're having a pretty casual and rustic outdoor wedding so everyone is wearing a short dress and everyone is picking out their own. The bridesmaids are going to wear whatever they want within a certain color family (probably somewhere between dark fuschia and plum) and the mothers can wear whatever they want within the color palette.

    My mom wants to wear this:

    Dressing the Mothers :  wedding Meister

     

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