Post # 1
would you ever drop all your wedding plans and deposits to get out of all this planning and drama that may be around your wedding planning whether its family, Future family or anything really!
Fi said to me i wish we could just go away and get married and i kinda agree that after al his sister, and mother have done i want to run away and just make it back again about us, ive wanted a wedding/dress/big party but deep down it would feel bettter to just get rid of family drama!
if we stoped the wedding do you stop the bridal shower and stag and doe? just wondering bc its tempting but i dont want to upset my mom shes worked hard on planning my shower. the stag and doe well that can be cancelled.
Post # 3
I wouldn’t stop the wedding because of drama. I have put way to much into it to stop it now. Also, if you do stop the wedding and elope, I think that would cancel out any stag and/or doe parties.
Post # 4
because we started early in the planning (2years before hand) we hadnt actually put any deposits down… we had booked the venue which didn’t require a deposit, and we dropped everything and got married at the celebrants how with his kids and my brother and his brother 🙂 it was prefect bliss!! no family dramas HAHAHA except the ones where they are all wondering what the hell we are doing with wedding plans (because we announced our date at the engagement party and didnt want to change it… 10/10/10) but it was wonderful and i’m glad we did it that way 🙂