Post # 1
WTH? I just found out that during the last month of my relationship with my ex, he was porking his trashy ex girlfriend! OMG! I always wondered why he broke up with me so suddenly when I accidently put words in his mouth during the tiniest of all arguements (I think we disagreed on whether or not I should replace my sofa). He said, “don’t put words in my mouth” and I said “you’re right baby, I’m sorry for doing that” and then he just suggested we break up. I thought he was joking and I even laughed. When I came out of the shower an hour later, he was packing his things. I was dumfounded, and cried for weeks. He said he wasn’t happy. I was pretty happy with him even though it was a short relationship (5 months). Or so I thought.
I seriously can’t believe this girl won out on me! I mean, holy crap!!!
Granted, I’m with the most amazing guy of my life, and I woudn’t trade him for anything.
I kind of want to laugh because he complained about her SO MUCH when he and I met. She was working as an escort behind his back. Good lord. How do you reconcile that? Lmao. She even had a mustache and my ex said it was so distracting. He also said she had feminine hygeine issues.
My ex was starting to put on significant weight when we split. He literally gained like 25 lbs in our short relationship. And he thought I was too kinky in bed because I wanted it more than once a week.
Just venting, dumbfounded. My ego is screaming, why did he dump me for her? I’m glad he did, but how? Has this ever happened to any of you bees?
Post # 3
Laugh it off, sounds like they deserve each other and you’re with someone who makes you happy. But if it were me, and I had been in contact with him at all at this point, I would definitely break all ties.
Post # 4
@indigo_love: Haha this is a funny story! It KINDA happened to me. I know my ex cheated on me during some ‘break’ we were on but he never really confirmed it and I didn’t really want to know because I had kind of done the same blah blah. After the fact, his best friend said to me, “don’t be naive” and that was that. Now that I’m typing it out, I’m getting kind of mad because he lied straight to my face!! LOL – whatever, just bumps along the way, right?
Post # 5
Get tested and be glad you parted ways 🙂
Post # 6
Yeah. I was more irritated that the chick he cheated on me with was just ignorant as shit. I was at the bar one time and they were there and I walked past him to go get a drink and he handed me a $5 and asked me to grab him a beer?
I came back with it and was about to hand it to him and she said I was a good little N word. So I spilled it on her, and the bouncers kicked her out.
I was just FLOORED someone would ever say something like that and was all like “Dude? Really? With that? I’m glad We broke up.”
Post # 8
@j_jaye: <–this. If she was an escort, and he cheated while you’re together, get tested right away!
Post # 9
Are you sure his ex was a woman?
Post # 10
OMGOSH, did we date the same guy? The girl my ex cheated on me with wasn’t someone he ever dated but someone he constantly told me he hated. Later, I found out he was talking trash about me to her and then talking trash about her to me so that we would never be friends and I wouldn’t find out. Guys can be seriously stupid sometimes.
Now he is dating someone who literally looks like a man, and I’m with someone wonderful. Just laugh it off and appreciate what you have even more!
Post # 11
If she was an escort, you better be booking it to the OB/GYN!
Post # 12
- Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL
Good riddance to bad rubbish. I know it’s hard not to take it personally but you shouldn’t in this case. And yes, get tested ASAP.
Post # 13
Ya i found out my ex cheated after the fact. What bothered me most was people knew and NO ONE TOLD ME!
Always go with your gut.
Post # 14
What a douchenozzle! Definitely get tested and let karma deal with him.
Post # 15
It sounds like you dodged a major bullet with him! Be thankful that you came out on the better end and have an amazing guy now!
I completely understand feeling dumbfounded though, but if you can find a way to laugh it off, you’ll be so much better for it.
Post # 16
haha wowwww that’s crazy! i hope you wore a condom! How’d you find out?!