During family functions?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Helper bee

@Kacey23:  I am soooo not comfortable doing that sort of thing with family around. I think it’s a bit rude first of all, and also really awkward! At night, sure, but sneaking off during the day or when everyone is hanging out together – I couldn’t even relax enough to have any fun.

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

 

WTF.  NOPE!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Umm, I think its pretty disrespectful and could never do that with my family around. Seems awkward!

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I thought you were going to ask about holding hands and pecks and hugs, which I’m totally guilty of. But that’s because I count that stuff as “affection” and not ” sexy”. But sneaking off to a bedroom during a family affair? Hells to the no! I don’t even like to have sex with my husband when we spend the night at my dad’s house even if e eryone else is asleep!

Post # 7
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Helper bee

@Kacey23:  

I think it is very disrespectful. My brother and his GF did this when we were all at my parents’ house for the holidays and we all felt  so awkward and uncomfortable. The guest room they were sleeping in is right near the kitchen so we actually heard them. It was gross. Ultimately, we all just stayed away from the kitchen until they were done. I felt super embarrassed for my mom and I know all the guests felt uncomfortable also. 

I also thought it sucked that my family “blamed” my brother’s GF like “what kind of girl would do that?!?”. No one said anything to her directly but there was plenty of conversation behind their backs. I think they were both equally disrespectful and inconsiderate. I don’t understand how people think they’re “sneaking off” in these types of situations.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Oh god no. We have a pretty active sex life, but I draw the line at including my family as props. ick!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Nope, nope, nope! I would not feel comfortable with that. It’s rude and icky and awkward, if you ask me. 

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Nope.  That’s so disrespectful.  If your Aunt is just acting embarassed about it and not doing anything about …. perhaps it’s time to move family functions to someone else’s house.  

Holy crap my Grandma would have turned the hose on us.  I can’t imagine anyone in my family a. putting up with it, b. not saying anything 

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee

Um, no. I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t be in the mood anyway when I’m chilling with granny LOL. If they have been together for a while they have plenty of time to “be together,” so doing it when they know people are around is just disrespectful, and it comes off to me as an attention seeking behavior.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

That sounds awful! I could never do that. Never. But I do wonder, are they sneaking off for sexy time for sure? A lot of times during family functions FI and I slip away just to get away. I’m often overwhelmed by too many people in one house and FI just likes to hide with me.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

No way. Especially when its obvious what is going on. Thats embarassing and awkward for everyone! I really would not want my or my DH’s family to be aware of that.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Kacey23:  I’d never dream of doing that during a family function. I’m weird about anything more than a kiss on the cheek when we are in public. 

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