(Closed) E-ring regret :( Do I tell fiancé?

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
150 posts
Blushing bee

that’s a toughie. did you have anything to do with choosing out the 2nd ring? if so, you need to just suck it up. if he picked it all by himself, better to tell him NOW than in 20 years

Post # 5
1239 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@MrsNunez2B:  oh thats difficult, but I would say something to him as you will have that ring for the rest of your life.  When Fiance & I picked the ring I sort of wanted to leave it up to him but didnt want a surprise, he pointed out two both very nice, one I really wanted.  I tried them both on & he said he liked the other one the best, & I said i loved them both but I really love other one the best so that is what he chose.  At the end of the day he wants you to be happy with it, its a womans perogative to change her mind isnt it? 

Post # 6
869 posts
Busy bee

Sorry everything went wrong with the first ring.  I can’t tell you what to do, but I know that if it were me, I’d stick with the new one and wear it proudly.  I honestly feel like the message behind a ring means much more than the appearance.  And, to be honest, I don’t know whether all guys get that “wow, this is the one I want for her!” moment.  I’d be happy knowing he had that moment when choosing the ring. 🙂

Post # 7
348 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

Oh I’m so sorry for you! : (

I know the feeling of wearing a ring you don’t feel like is really you and it’s just horrible because you had other expectations of what it would feel like…

We got matching wedding bands and I honestly hated the look of mine on my finger. I mean I liked the whole idea of wearing matching bands but my wedding band was just too chunky for my thin fingers and didn’t really go with my engagement ring so I ended up wearing it on my right hand. But it was too small for that finger (apparently my right hand fingers are larger than on my left hand) and I had to get it resized. The jeweler I went to for resizing turned out to be awful and actually ruined the ring! It was a whole big mess, we ended up selling the gold and getting me a much more delicate wedding band that I think looks perfect with my ering.

I’m sorry for the long story, but my point I wanna make is that we have such good intentions but sometimes change our minds! I’m glad that I got to get another wedding band to wear, but it really sucks to have to wait for the ring to break or something to get what you want so I vote for the honesty route. : )

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