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    Soon2BeMrsCLW3    July 31, 2010  

    Hi Hive,

     Soo the boy and I have been ring shopping/ looking together and separately for the last 6 months now.  We (I) have calmed down with the "search" now, partly because i just want to be totally caught off guard when he finally does propose ...So anywho, I have gotten allll caught up with Tacori rings for the past few weeks (didnt know about this jeweler until a few weeks ago) but I went on the website and ABSOLUTELY fell in love with a few rings, which i forwarded to the boy.

    Pretty much after some discussion of him telling me not to get caught up in a ring itself, we are just searching styles, I tell him that the Tacori is my new fave top ring (for today, I tend to be EXTREMELY indecisive when it comes to certain things, so i will say this is the ring for the day...lol) to which the boy responds...YOU SUCK!!!  After questioning him WHY do i suck, I realized what i might have done.....

    So my mind started racing...has he already purchased / is in the process of paying down a ring for me?  Have i completely now pushed off our timeline for engagement and marriage and enjoying the rest of our lives together just bc of some ring?!?!!?!? Yes, I know i will be wearing it for the rest of my life, but to be honest with you, I will be happy with whatever ring he chooses, so my heart kind of sunk thinking that i inadvertently made him change course bc he has paid for a ring that is no longer my top choice....

    Im already edgy as to the timing of the proposal, what if i pushed us off track by a few months?!?! WHAT IF!?!!? I DONT THINK I CAN STAY SANE MUCH LONGER!!!!!!!

     
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    tessabella76    September 12, 2009   Ohio

    I would just come out and ask him what he meant by that. And make sure you tell him that you will love whatever he decides to give you.

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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    Yeah, did he mean "you suck" because he possibly already took care of it, or "you suck" because you picked out something kind of expensive? Or was he just totally kidding because you're probably driving him crazy! LoL

    Just do what my friend did--ask him if you should keep looking or if you should just let it slide right by. He told her "don't worry i've taken care of everything" and she was like "ok i trust you. Whew!" and stop freaking

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    Soon2BeMrsCLW3    July 31, 2010  

    Tessabella,

     I have already asked him, but he wont explain..(VERY STUBBORN!!) But, i have told him that i will love whatever he chooses, esp since we have looked at and mutually fell in love with quite a few of  them.  Thanks for the quick response! I LOVE WB!!! :)

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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    That probably means he got you something!

    Tacori is pretty, but if you found something you both like already, consider it just a fad. I look at rings all the time and go "oooo that's so pretty!" but at the end of the day i'm always happy with what I've actually got on my finger!

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    Soon2BeMrsCLW3    July 31, 2010  

    ejs4y8, YAY!!! when i read what you wrote about him possibly having the ring, i almost jumped out of my chair! lol, yes im a certified dork, i admit it!! I totally feel you about loving what is on your finger.  I know i will love whatever he gets me!

     

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