(Closed) E-rings dilemma… need opinions pls!

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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1025 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

You are totally overthinking this!! If you love the ring, get it!!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I think you are over thinking it as well, but I understand your concern. If this girl was your best friend or something, I would say no, but you aren’t close with her, and there are only so many types of rings in the world. Two people are bound to get the same ring, and if she ever says anything about it, just act surprised and like it was a coincidence. Who cares, if you love it, don’t let the thought of this girl that you don’t even know that well keep you from getting your dream ring!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

If you love the e-ring, get it. Most rings look slightly different depending on who is wearing it, the size of the ring, the size of the diamond and the wedding band you choose. Anyway, there are only so many styles of engagement rings out there, in your lifetime, you are bound to run into people who have the same style as you.

Post # 6
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1013 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I think you’re overthinking it too.  If you love the ring get it.  No one is going to say ‘oh your ring looks like so-and-so’s’.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@ChicagoRN:  I would get the ring that you love! After all you have to wear it for the rest of your life. And it is probably is a compliment to her if you have the same ring…LOL I wouldn’t worry about it especially if you don’t see her that much as it is! It’s you and your FI’s decision ultimately. I think I agree with PPs that you are overthinking! Congrats and happy planning! 🙂 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@ChicagoRN:  If it’s the ring you know is meant for you, who cares?  Also, there are very few one of a kind rings in this world. Go for it!

Post # 9
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11753 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

it doens’t matter, tons of other people will have your ring. if you love it, get it! It’s not like she’s your BFF, and even if she was – if you love it too you could get it!

Post # 10
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160 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 1997

There are lots of ring twins in the world!  Get the ring you love!

 

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