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Don't you dare get them! You are small, you will be in proportion, and think of all the tops and dresses you could wear now that you couldn't before! No back pain!
You don't even want to know how ridiculously large mine are. I envy you!
I rock the Miraculous push up by VS (target & Macys both have versions too) and its AH-MAZ-ING!!! They even make bathing suites with these bad boys built in now!
A few years ago I was all ready to go and get a set done, but my biggest concern was that they have to be re-done every 15-20 years, so at 20 years old, that ment at least 3 more surgeries in my life.....
I wouldn't mine getting a lil oomph! But I gotta say that it would make me feel "un-natural" But if I had the chance I probably would do it! After breastfeeding they did get a lil different but not in a bad way. I'm just grateful to have some lol 36C
Hmm... Everyone's input is very helpful. I guess there is still a chance that they will come back? I mean they were naturally big. I will be looking into that swimsuit mentioned!
I would say if it is effecting your self esteem and your relationship to go for it. I have seen some marriages almost fall apart post breast feeding because the women were so uncomfortable with their post baby breast.
Think about it for awhile, do research, go in and have a consultation with a plastic surgeon. I was never big to begin with, after having my son, I am the same size but gravity has done some damage for sure. I would never get implants but only because I am happy with my size (I sure wouldn't mind a lift though). If it's something you really feel would make you feel like "you" again, I think it's worth at least looking into.
Thanks everyone. I did have the consultation a while ago. I've been thinking seriously about it since June. We can't afford it at this second so it would be something in the future. I won't finance my breasts either so I would need to save up the cash first. I go back and forth. Honestly I don't like them naked. They look "fine". Just not what I used to have. I guess by the time I have the cash I will have thought about it for a good while.
I'm also scared about the repeat surgeries since I'm only 23 and would def. need to have them re-done. Thanks you again!
I had mine done about a year and a half ago, and I am THRILLED with my results. I had serious self esteem issues with mine before...example: I was with my ex for over 3 years and would never let him look at me without a shirt on in the light. Awful, I know.. imagine how I felt. I was so flat, did not look proportionate at all, and there were tons of clothes I just couldn't wear. I didn't go huge. I got 350 CC's which gave me a D. It's insane how feminine boobs make me feel. I love the way clothes fit now, I am not ashamed to let my SO look at me when he wants, etc. I would say, definitely do your research. I researched it for months and months non stop before I did it, I went to different Plastic surgeons till I found someone I was really comfortable with, etc. And yes, there is a chance you'll need to have them replaced at some point in your lifetime. But there is a common misconception that it's every 10 years, and that is not true. They only need to be replaced if something happens to your implant. I've known people who needed replacements after 5 years and people who've had them over 20 years and still have their original ones. Before, I really hated the idea of plastic surgeory and having something foreign in my body, but I also didn't want to live my life feeling the way I did about myself and being so self conscious. So, definitely a personal decision you need to make for yourself! In my case, worth every single penny.
@Ohhavok: ditto! I couldn't fill an A cup before I got mine done 2 years ago, and had major self esteem problems becuase of it. SO didn't want me to get them done becuase of all the horror stories he had heard, but understood why I wanted them, and was super supportive. Didn't go super big- 350/325cc which got me up to a low D, high C. I'm 5'8", so I finally am proportionate! Nothing made me feel better then the first time I walked into the living room for a towel naked (laundery on the couch lmao) and my guy couldn't take his eyes off my boobs when we talked (hello, my eyes are up here hahah). I love my 'add-ons', and would do it again in a heart beat!!
I love mine - I lost volume due to breast feeding my son so I got implants and a mini lift as well. I am very happy with the results.
GO GET THEM! I totally can relate I am 5 1" I had a baby and lost weight going from a 38 DDD to a 34 C which seems fine but they are like deflated balloons! YUCK I am having them done after baby #2 which we are going to start TTC in Sept 2012.
Get them! I'll more than likely get boobs after I finish having children.
If it makes you feel like you again - do it!
I am very small - 32B - and though I don't have an issue with them now if they ever get saggy (small boobs sag too!) I'm totally getting some work done. I wouldn't go large but I wouldn't be ashamed of having them done either.
@TequilaSunrise: I think you need to do whatever you feel will make you happy! If you loved having breasts, then get them girl! You don't know howwwwww many girls I know whos breasts deflated after children and just stayed that way. It totally messed with their self confidence and they felt like a million bucks after implants.
I think ALL breast sizes are beautiful :) So I don't want to be the fake boob pusher, but I have implants and I absolutely LOVE them. Fake boobs measure smaller than real boobs, so a D isn't even big. I'm a DD and I look like a full C in clothes, but my bras are all D-DD. It is the best decision I ever made and they are not even noticeable as far as extra weight, pain etc. If you have any questions you can PM me anytime. I feel like I know so much about fake breasts I could probably do a surgery on my own, LOL!! Good luck hun :)
@TequilaSunrise: I think you need to do whatever you feel will make you happy! If you loved having breasts, then get them girl! You don't know howwwwww many girls I know whos breasts deflated after children and just stayed that way. It totally messed with their self confidence and they felt like a million bucks after implants.
I think ALL breast sizes are beautiful :) So I don't want to be the fake boob pusher, but I have implants and I absolutely LOVE them. Fake boobs measure smaller than real boobs, so a D isn't even big. I'm a DD and I look like a full C in clothes, but my bras are all D-DD. It is the best decision I ever made and they are not even noticeable as far as extra weight, pain etc. If you have any questions you can PM me anytime. I feel like I know so much about fake breasts I could probably do a surgery on my own, LOL!! Good luck hun :)
whoops! double post. But btw...I have 460/470ccs. They are my favorite part of my body :) lol
Go for it! I'm in the same boat. I hate it when I tell friends I want to get augmentation and they become judgemental. It's like they have this idea that I'm going to be walking around looking like Pamela Anderson. I was a 34B as a teenager and now i'm a SMALL 32A (I breastfed 3 kids- 1 yr + each). They don't really sag low or anything, but they did lose volume and I am not comfortable with that. I want to get C's, full and natural and it would look great with my figure. I'm 5'0", 114 llbs. I'm bottom heavy with fuller thighs and butt but I'm really slim up top. Ithink Cs would fit my body well.
I'm 5'3, 110lbs and I wear a 34D. I'm misrable. My back hurts, and I don't fit into ANYTHING right. (things are either perfect in the stomach but too tight in the chest, or perfect in the chest but way too loose in the stomach) I've only found 1 button up shirt that's ever even fit me KIND of right, and I feel out of proportion (probably because I AM.) I will probably never personally understand why small girls get implants. THAT SAID...
You need to do what makes you most happy. If you do feel as though you would be happier and more self confident with them, and you have the means to do so, then get them! It's your body and you should be able to do what you want with it. ^_^ don't listen to what anyone says, just do what you WANT to do and what you'd be happiest with.
It can take 6 months to a year or more for your breasts to come back after you stop breastfeeding. Like, literally, the tissue changes. If you do have surgery, you should wait at least two years and until after you are done having kids.
I'm a 32 D, too. Remember ladies, with the smaller bust the cup size is smaller, too, so it's not as bad as it sounds. I hope they come back, just give it time!
There is a lady I work with, and she has implants. She is very proud of them infact. This is tonna sound mean and jugemental , but I have noticed something. Interesting. She's gained a bit Of weight,not alot but enough to notice, and her boobs look weird now. Almost like the adipose tissue is trying grow in proportion witH Her but it can't.
You know it's bad when I notice these kinda things. Since I am obliviousbto most things
I say get them! I was extremely insecure and unhappy with my boobs before I had them. I have 350 ccs and I am a full C/baby D. My back does not hurt at all, implant boobs are not as heavy as real tissue boobs.. My chest has grown since I got them 3 years ago (only maybe half a cup) and they look very real. In fact, everytime I tell someone they are fake they are like "whatttt?" That kinda bums me out surprisingly lol. I never tell anyone until they say "well you are lucky, you just have natural boobs" I do not flaunt them. Most people I know with them are more modest AFTER they get the implants. But my DH was so against them at first. He said I was perfect blahh blahh, but I did not do them for him, I did them for ME. I had to make myself happy and feel better. I was seriously like a flat counter with nipples. I have no children, so I have not breastfed yet (yes, you still CAN with implants under the muscle) but I am sure I will get them redone afterwards, so if you are planning on having more kids, then I say to wait until you are done. My advice is to google just breast implants and there will be a site with a bunch of forums that you can join. I joined that and learned SO much before I went under the knife. Everyone is super supportive too. Good luck! :)
If you want them, I say go for it 100%. I agree with the PP who have gotten them on many things. They aren't as heavy as natural tissue, so back pain is very unlikely. I also chose a reasonable size IMO (large C/small D), which, I think, looks proportionate. I'm 5'3" and petite (about 115lb) as well, so I didn't want to overdo it. I've never gotten negative comments or had anyone ask if they are real (everyone in my life knows, I mean strangers/before I had a chance to tell people).
I was very flat before (A cup, maybe small B depending on the bra), and I wasn't porportionate. I hated it and considered implants for a long time before getting them. I did a lot of research, and finally decided this was the best choice for me. My doctor was wonderful, and I can't stress the importance of a good doctor enough. Many of my friends and family thought I should wait until I got older to see if I changed my mind. I decided to go ahead because I had wanted it for so long and I wanted to enjoy my new body while I was young. I don't regret it at all. Maybe it's silly, but I even feel thinner (I was never big, but I felt like it because my chest and stomach were practically even).
Also, all the women in my family had larger chests. Maybe I'm wrong, but I think my chest was smaller than it should have been because of cheerleading while I developed (I was extremely active and ate very little to stay small). I'm sure it's not right for everyone, but I feel like I have something I was always meant to have.
i think you should i personally dont have any but i did convince my mom to get hers and i paid half!
After she had my brother she gained alot of weight up to 180lbs and right now shes at 120 yeah i know super weight loss, her boobs were such a sad disaster. looked like empty bean bags sorry but true lol.
Shes had them for almost 3 years and shes super happy shes 5-3 and weighs 120-125 and wears a 32 c-d i think she looks awesome.
so if u want them go for it!
I have implants and I love them!
But I don't have kids, don't have plans to have kids, there was nothing 'wrong' with my previous size so this was just a cosmetic thing. If you're considering it, have done the research, have the money and the time to give to recovery, why not?
i had kids young and so my breasts probably never developed the way they should have. i have very little volume.
so, i wonder. (excuse my cluelessness..i've never fathomed getting implants!) they may look great but how do they feel? any problems with sensation? chronic pain? lol what happens when your partner squeezes them? can they burst? does it interfere with sexual arousal or nipple sensation.
thanks!
@PrincessPiggy: No on all accounts, and I actually think mine are more sensitive (in a good way). It depends on which kind you get and their placement for how it feels when you squeeze them. Implants under the muscle feel more realistic than over the muscle, as do silcone compared to saline. You really will have to do some research to find out what is best for you. There are so many options/outcomes you need to consider, and no one can tell you what will be best in your personal situation.
I can relate to you, i always been 34B and always loved my boobs they were nice, round, and full but last year in august i had my first baby and they sag...i dont fit in my old bras for some reason i'm 34d or a little bigger but when i take my bra off i feel kinda sad and FI says oh you're beautiful blahhhh i don't feel the saame, i dont like them but what can i do :(((
I say do it! I have mine done & my only regret was not waiting until after I had babies to get them. After having my son & breastfeeding they just weren't the same. Not as perky, and because I lost so much weight you could feel the implant on one side when I layed down. I'm prego now, & i'm still choosing to breastfeed again ( b/c the benefits outway appearance) however if I could do it all over again I would have waited until after having kids. :) Good luck with your decision!
The only problem with them is you have to get them redone approximately every 10 years.
I would never get them because I like my 34B/32C self lol. I believe my man when he tells me I'm "hot" or "beautiful," so I don't feel the need to change myself. I used to be really tiny, barely a 32A, but then I had my daughter lol :)
If its seriously damaging your self esteem, then that might be something to look into I suppose.
I've considered getting them for almost 20 years....but I've always been too chicken s**t to do it. And everyone told me to wait until after I had kids b/c they change so much. No kids yet and if I don't I think I will get them for my 40th bday.
Mine are different sizes and it's always bothered me....if they weren't so obvious it probably wouldn't bother me as much. DH says they are incredibly perky for my age (umm, yeah no kids) and he loves the different sizes, it's like having 2 women. Weird, never heard that one! He supports me on getting them but says he loves the feel of them...so that's my only hesitation.
PP mentioned the VS Miraculous bra...I have 3 and wear them ALL the time. The only problem I have with them is if you are "perky" to begin with they almost look fake. But I don't care, they fill in my shirts just perfectly.
It was one of the best things I did. I was a 34 a/b. I am now a 36 d and they look very natural... You can look at my pictures on my profile and see. I am 5'7 so I felt it was a good size for me. If you do it , Pick a doctor you are 100% comfortable with.
Changing the outside may not change your self esteem. Things change as we get older, it might wake you want to get more and more things done in the future without learning to love yourself. just a thought.
getting breast implants was one of the best things I EVER could have done, I was super flat and didn't want huge fake looking boobs, I told the doctor to make them look natural and everyone is shocked when I tell them they are fake! My boobs went from being my most hated to most loved part of my body! 8 years later and I STILL love them more than EVER! (I got them when I was 18)
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SO supports whatever I would like to do. I'm 5ft flat. Very petite. Pre-baby I had was a size 32 D. Now after two babies and breastfeeding the second for a year I'm a 32 barely B. I want my girls back in the worst way! I don't feel like me anymore.My SO says I'm beautiful no matter what.
Tell me ladies...Do I suck it up? They don't sag terrible so it could be worse.. Anyone have them and love them or hate them? Any advice?