Post # 1
I am engaed to be married, problem is he is foreign and has 3 grandkids, I too have grandkids 10 of them 6 of them are over 18, I knowwe are elderly but he does not want the kids at the wedding…an all adult affair, fine,all ok, but his grandkids will be here forthe wedding which makes my kids hurt,,,who do Iagree with! it’sdriving me nuts….some advice please!!
Post # 3
You will probably get mixed responses about this. Personally, I would say that grandchildren are close family and deserve to be there. Other people might disagree. However, in the end then this is something you both need to discuss and come to an agreement on… my opinion doesn’t matter so much as the fact you can both agree!
Post # 4
Is there a reason for kids not being there? I totally understand Adult Only Weddings but it seems you and your fiance are not on the same page as far as your guest list.
Personally I find it unfair that ALL of his grandkids get to come but 3 of your 10 grandhchildren do not get to attend. I vote all or none to be fair to both parties involved.
Post # 5
You can’t have one without the other. All of them or none of them is the way to go. There’s no middle ground.