- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
Sadly I have been a mess the past few days and very confused and lost on what is best to do at this point. We have been planning a beautiful wedding and a small one with about 90 guests max if not less. We have both parents supporting us with the financial aspect of it. My parents paying for reception and Limo, my Mother-In-Law is paying for photographer and videographer and we have booked some of these plus a DJ and put deposts down and everything was going smooth, not perfect but smooth.
My Fiance tells me on Friday that he lost his position as a full time and now he is going to be working part time from now on. I work at retail and barely make much. We are both in school graduating very soon. I am graudating this May and Fiance will finish in the summer or fall.
After knowing our situation now and how money is limited to keep going with the plans for our wedding , I am crushed but at the same time I know we wont have enough money after having this wedding if we keep going with it and if Fiance and I cant find good full time jobs. Also to make things worse, we are in long distance relationship and haven’t seen my Fiance since Dec and wont see him until maybe May or June when I move.
We had plans for me to move to where he lives in June because he had a full time job and for me to find a job there, however, now everything is up in the air as to what will happen with him when it comes to jobs and we dont have that support that we had before to even move forward with things and ending the distance even. I dont really plan to live rest of my life or more than 2 months with his parents house. Its a very small house and his parents have problems that I dont want to be involved in or even know about really…
My Fiance has an interview thursday with a great company that is offering full time positions, however, that is going to depend ofcourse on if my Fiance will get the job or not. He has been looking very hard for a job now , but its been very hard and same story with me when it comes to finding another job.
Should we elope and break the news to the family soon before we do? Or should we keep going with the wedding even though we might not have the money or if we do have the money , we will end up with little money while moving out on our own.