- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2009
Well, I am looking for some support, other than from my parents, which is definitely awesome that they have given their support. (We will be talking to FH parents tonight, don’t know how my FMIL will take it…)
Anyway, this is the story, for the past couple of weeks, I have been suffering (I say suffering because there are a lot of other emotional & physical aspects of this struggle) with Patellar Tendonitis, more so in my left knee, recently developed in my right knee. I just started my Phys. Thrpy today–the Therapist has told me that I will be going thru some very painful therapy in the next few visits. I am probably doing this for the next 6 weeks, or so. Being that there are certain exercises that I’m going to have to do for my crazy knees, I’m going to need someone to help me out. It’s been really hard, I pretty much ended up not being able to walk for a week & I wasn’t supposed to climb stairs & had to for work (no elevator here) So things have been TOUGH for my left knee & I think my right knee had enough & started having an attitude of it’s own. I’m kinda…not able to walk, I am, but I waddle, like a peguin, legs straight out, side to side, hurts to bend them. Anyway!!!!! Continuing….
FH has an apt. and I HAD a home, back in DEC. but left because I couldn’t stand the people I lived with. I now share a bed with the daughter of the family who originally intro’d FH & I. Which isn’t a problem–we’re grand friends, but last week FH & I literally had to pack a suitcase of my stuff (cause it’s all at his apt.) to take over to this family’s house for the week. (We don’t actually live together-remaining abstinent until we are married) It was such a hassel & he really didn’t have time to do it (finishing up his college, graduating May 9th) and so, this is the thing, I haven’t really had a permanent home since I moved here. I’ve also spoken with him about this idea before, but not until last night did he realize how absolutely important it would be for him to take care of me (well, neither of realized the magniture of my knees) so we have decided to have a small family ceremony this coming Saturday 04/14/09 & continue on with our huge wedding/reception (dresses, tuxes & all) on June 13th & actually celebrate our anniversary on that date (well, we don’t mind celebrating both). But, being that this is life at the moment, attempting to remain abstinent, not wanting to hide this from our family, we have invited, just our immediate family & the family that intro’d us (I’ve known them my whole life–they are practically my family)
I’ve been told both sides of this whole thing. Those who agree, those who don’t. I just need to get some feedback from a place where everybody’s talking ‘wedding’ anyway ")
See if I can bounce this off someone who’s not in my shoes.
Am I crazy? Is this wise? LOL!!!
My sister told me that she’s upset that she can’t be there, cause it won’t be special. To which I was like, ‘well, for you? or us? cause the way I see it is, this guy loves me enough to marry me twice & that’s sayin sumthing!’
Anyhoo, thoughts? ")