- 4 years ago
- Wedding: December 2010
This email exchange between my DH and I has me really annoyed and I can’t tell if I am being overly sensitive. I don’t feel like going to the gym tonight and he is annoyed. He goes to the gym 7 days a week for 90 minutes + and I usually go around 4 times a week for an hour (Oh, the procedure I am having is a breast lift).
I am so tired today! Just want to go home, have a hot shower and watch something trashy on TV. Could also be talked into having sushi for dinner!
You have goals you are trying to meet for your procedure.
You have 8 weeks?
Do you want to skip the gym tonight?
Yes, yes I do
I think that because I never complain about how much time you spend in the gym, you should be supportive if I want to have a few nights off the gym.
I like going on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Saturday because I don’t have to stress about work the next day, and because I have time to unwind after uni before heading to the gym. I am working tomorrow so I just want to have dinner, wash my hair and go to bed early again.
I am supportive of your surgery, that im paying for (mostly), that I want to be a success, and you return to me healthy.
You can take tonight off, but you have progressively been doing less and less in the gym that I can see. I could be wrong. I am just trying to help you think, but obviously im the bad guy here because I want you to only have one surgery. It makes sense that you bring up that you never complain, I totally see that logic.
Did I complain about something? Do you want to complain about my time in the gym? Would you prefer I spent every waking moment with you?
I don’t get what you are saying about me, and why you cant see what I was saying to you.