Post # 1
I made a huge oops. I tried my dress on today and had to ruch to pick my daughter up from school. So instead of carefully packing it away like usual, I left it on the bed thinking I would do it when I got home. Needless to say I completely forgot about it.
Fast forward to now when I walk up stairs and see my dress laying out still and my Fi has already gone up stairs and changed out of hus work clothes. Did he shut the door and tell me I needed to put something away? Nope. He says he saw the empty bag and changed in the bathroom. Of couse I loose it tears and all and he just blows it off. I know it is silly, butI wanted it to be a complete suprise.
Post # 3
Dont worry!! Guys are so oblivious to stuff like this. Plus, a wedding dress looks totally different on the hanger (or on the bed) than it does on. He will still be “wowed!!”
Post # 4
So sorry that he saw your dress and I know it must be devastating, but the good thing is that he probably didn’t pay much attention to it, and he hasn’t seen it on you, so really he doesn’t know what you look like in it.
I would just put it away where he can’t see it for now. Your wedding isn’t for another 9 months, so he probably won’t even remember what it looks like by then.
Post # 5
oh no! even if he walked in the room and saw “white dress” on the bed that’s all he saw before he turned and walked out, trust me he has no IDEA what it actually looks like ya know? not unless it was a pic on the internet, or on YOU! don’t worry!
Post # 6
Don’t feel bad. My mom had a picture of me printed out from when I had tried my dress on, and put it on her fridge. I had no idea it was even there. Fiance totally saw it over Thanksgiving!!! He walked back in the living room and was like “ummm I don’t think I was supposed to see this, but is that a pic of you in your wedding dress on the fridge?” I was like WTF!!!??!?! Ran in there to look and sure enough it was. He swears he didn’t “really” see it…that as soon as he saw me and white dress he looked away, which is probably true, but I was still like, you’ve got to be kidding me.
Same with you, though, I’m sure he just saw white dress and alarms in his head went off and he looked away. And we all know they look much different when they are actually on a person, so I’m sure he couldn’t tell much!
Post # 7
He didn’t see it on you, it will be totally different in person. I know a lot of girls put a lot into their Fiance not seeing them in the dress, but even if he did, that moment when he first sees you will still be special and amazing. (((hugs))) It is a little dissapointing, but I really do think that he probably just glanced and didn’t take a long time to see it, and even then, when you’re in it it will be totally different!
Post # 8
I really would not worry about it. I think that wedding dresses look completely different on the hanger than on you and it is NOT BAD LUCK for him to see it! If it is, then all the people who are having first looks (including myself) are all doomed!