Emotional about bachelorette

posted 2 years ago in Parties
Post # 2
1745 posts
Bumble bee

I think your friend is a bit of an idiot, to be blunt. If I was told I had an email invite my response would be “Oh, I don’t normally check that email. I’ll get RSVP later today!” not “I have the information but I refuse to look at it because I just sort of kind of don’t want to, even though I want to go to the event. Hopefully someone tells me another way so I don’t have to look at what I already have…!”

I think most people check their email. It should be fine. You can always touch base with whoever is handling RSVPs if you’re that worried.

Post # 3
413 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Muckenthaler Cultural Center

Tell her to check her email! Lol, I can’t think of any adult I know who does not check their email.

Post # 4
1055 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Loft

Maybe they can follow up with people who they haven’t received a response from? I agree, it seems weird they would be so excited for the wedding but not attend the bachelorette?

Post # 5
9526 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Unfortunately, people are just awful about RSVPing. Just look around on the bee and you’ll see tons of posts about havin to hunt down people who won’t check a box and put a pre-stamped, pre-addressed envelope in the mail. I would not take this as a slight or a sign that people aren’t excited for you and for the bachelorette. People just suck at RSVPing. Maybe suggest that your bridesmaids try other methods of contacting people (phone, facebook, text, whatever) but, ultimately, let them deal with it. You’ve got enough to worry about. Just show up and party with whoever is there!

Leave a comment

Sent weekly. You may unsubscribe at any time.

Find Amazing Vendors