- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
So, my “big day” is a little less then a year away at this point, originaly we had postponed it from it being this October because so many things happened during the last year, we just felt this was right so we will be getting married on October 28th, 2012. I am so excited but at the same time I feel guilty for being this excited. My Mom and her boyfriend just broke up and she is in the process of moving out of his house, his niece is supposed to be my flower girl because I have been babysitting her since she was 9 months old, she is now 3 years old. I really am not to fond of her now ex-boyfriend’s family, so I am actually just fine with no longer inviting them, however, I am fond of my flower girl and her parents (my mom’s ex’s brother and his wife) I even was going to have my photographer do a whole photoshoot for her and her Mom….. I am not sure what to do anymore, should I no longer have her be my flower girl? I was quite excited about her playing that role in my wedding but I think things might be too uncomfortable for my Mom and even them if I continue with this plan but then at the same time, would they get offended if I tell them that I can no longer have her be my flower girl? this is causing so much confusion and stress and I have to blog about it here because my Mom is so fragile right now that I can’t just come out and ask her what I should do, I really don’t want to postpone it again, but should I? if anyone has any advice, please let me know…..