(Closed) Empty Ring Finger

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1820 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

The opposite really. I have worn a ring on my left finger since I got a birthstone ring for my 16th birthday. Nobody ever thought it was an engagement ring back then. In the past few years, its been mistaken for an e-ring so many times I lost count. Luckily I lost weight and was able to switch it on my right hand finger. It felt slightly weird at my age wearing a ring on my left hand that wasnt an engagement ring even though i’d been wearing it on that same finger for 10 years. 

Post # 5
2961 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Well I am engaged but I rarely wear my e-ring because of the nature of my work. At  this point I wear it when we go out, special ocassions, etc. I now have three diamond engagement rings (two from previous relationships) and I simply do not wear them.

Post # 6
412 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

“Do you feel like you should have a ring on their left hand yet?” 

Please fix the english there

Post # 7
90 posts
Worker bee

@FutureMrsRoos:  Ah come on! People will be hesitant to post if they think that someone is going to be analysing their grammar! 

Post # 8
319 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I never wore a ring on “that finger” until the Fiance proposed.  Now that being said – when I was alone I would wear a ring on that finger just to see how it would feel.  🙂 

Post # 9
6360 posts
Bee Keeper

@LittleMusic:  Agreed. OP, please don’t worry about the grammar of your post. I know I make little mistakes like this all the time myself. This is an informal forum, as long as we understand you, it’s cool!

For me it’s the opposite, I’m not sure how long it takes for me to get used to wearing a ring on a finger where I usually wear nothing. I think if yours is usally bare too, this is more about really wanting him to ASK and another ring is just not going to make you feel better (and may weird him out a bit). That said, you could always try one on there when you’re alone and see if it makes any difference (I bet it won’t though because it isn’t his ring!)

Now, as for thinking of FH as the person I’m going to be with for the rest of my life, I’m already very used to that Smile

Post # 10
662 posts
Busy bee

@LittleMusic:  LOL! Truth is, people are usually always analyzing your grammar, whether they post about it or not 🙂


(but we all make mistakes, so who cares!)

Post # 11
2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I’ve worn my promise ring on my left ring finger for the last 2 years.  I’m just waiting for it to be upgraded Laughing

Post # 13
1069 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

@countrygirl2015:  My Left Ring Finger feels lonely lol I used to wear a fake ring for a while, especially if I went out to a bar and I didn’t feel like being hit on, but I always wore my Grandmother’s ring on my left pinky finger… until recently, when I started to have a mysterious rash. I switched it to the right hand and it’s cleared up… I wonder if Grandma’s sending me a sign that the ering isn’t too far off lol

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