enbarrasing question…

posted 3 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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8706 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Men are pretty simple people. If he honestly wanted you to “fix” it, he’d go, “Wellll… maybe it’s something to think about.”

 

If he thinks it looks fine, he thinks it looks fine. We as women tend to read into things that men say because women notoroiously “speak without speaking” what they really want to say.

 

If you are uncomfortable with it, get it done. But I would trust that your husband thinks you look fine the way you are.

 

Post # 5
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2690 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Are you having issues or is it just a looks thing?  If it’s just something you don’t like the look of, I would forgo the surgery.  If it works fine and feels fine and your hubby is fine with it, then I would jusyt live with it.  But that is just me… I also have 3 kids, about to have my 4th and I tore with all 3 even though they were small babies.  I know my va-jayjay looks tore up but who cares.  No one is looking at it, least of all me. 🙂

Post # 6
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9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@brokeninnj:  If it bothers you (and it seems to because you posted about it), I would get it fixed. It may just be cosmetic and maybe your husband is fine with it – but if it something you don’t want to live with then you shouldn’t have to.

Post # 7
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134 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Well seeing that you already had two bad experiences and still do not prefer a csection, i would advise you to wait till you are all done with having children.

Reading this makes me feel pretty good about deciding on a second csection! i have huge babies. i just knew what could happen. If it were me, id worry about my poor boobies getting redone than something that is usually hidden inside me.

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