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Encores: The old ring? What to do?

posted 2 years ago in Encore
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  • poll: What to do with the old ring?
    Sell - regardless of value recouped : (54 votes)
    59 %
    Make into another piece of jewelry (i.e. diamond solitaire pendant) : (19 votes)
    21 %
    Give to mom and let her figure out what she wants to do : (1 votes)
    1 %
    Other (I'll explain in the comments) : (18 votes)
    20 %
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    loveapril    April 3, 2010  

    I actually had two sets from my ex husband. One set I am keeping for my son some day when he grew up and ready to get married, the second set (same one that I was wearing when he left me for another woman), I sold. The rest of the jewelry will go to my daughter with time as she gets older.

     
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    stahlkl    November 6, 2010   South Carolina/Clearwater, FL

    I wouldn't feel comfortable giving it to a child that wasn't his.  I also don't think i would be able to wear it again--knowing who it came from.  I would so some research and sell it where you could get the most money.  maybe check into ebay/craigs list-- and see if you can get more than through a pawn shop. 

     
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    Christine_M    October 1, 2010   Hamilton, Ontario

    I still have my wedding set (e-ring and band) and my husband's band.  My first husband passed away, so I guess I never really had any hard feelings.  I keep them in my jewlery box and hope that one day our kids will ask to wear them.

     
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    mermaideve      

    I sold mine. I was able to pay off some bills and didn't have to have that horrible feeling whenever I saw it. One of the best things I did around the time of the divorce.

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    I am also in the "sold it" club.  I'm glad I did.  Every time I'd see it, the mere sight of it would turn my stomach.  Put it to good use!  

     
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    SeeingStars    July 27, 2010  

    Hahah, I'd be the 1 that just gave it to my mom and said get rid of this!!!

    I have no idea what she did with it and doesn't bother me at all. It is out of my life. :)

     
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    rgpj    March 5, 2011   Arizona

    I had mine melted down and redesigned - just like my life.

    I added two small blue sapphires on the side (for my two boys) and had a setting designed and used all of the original stones from my e-ring. Its beautiful and I refer to it as my 'freedom ring'

     

     

     

     

     
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    lisalew5472    September 29, 2012   Friendswood, TX

    I'm having the teensy little diamond (tee hee) taken out of the old setting and put into a necklace. A diamond IS a diamond, after all, and that will make me HAPPY instead of grimacing every time I look at the ring. The wedding band will be sold.

     
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    edisonsgirl    October 2, 2010  

    My ex has our rings. I gave it back to him so he could save it for our daughter or our son.

     

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