(Closed) Engaged and Fighting more?

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

There’s a question just like this in the related posts below.

For me, we do fight a little more because we’re under the stress of the wedding planning and pressures from our families. It’s also been a chance to really bring a lot of things to the surface (like, how do we deal with what your mom wants vs. what we want? Do we spend or splurge on the wedding? etc.)

Also there’s the thought in the back of my mind that I’m committing to this man forever. Sometimes that makes me incredibly happy and sometimes I get a weird feeling about it. It’s not that I don’t want to, it’s just kind of … weird, I can’t describe it. When we’re snippy, it’s rough, but then we make up and things are as happy as ever. And happier, because we genuinely are excited about the upcoming wedding. So, when you and your fellow aren’t fighting, are things good? I’d look at that and chalk up some of the middle-of-the-night crabbiness (or not!) being strained. 

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