my cousin and his wife were enegaged for 6 years dated 5 b4 that so 11 years, they are the most loving couple i have ever seen, they both wanted to have the good job be done school own their home b4 they ot married and they are in love os waiting 11 years was no biggie … they stared dating when theywere in there early 20’s they they are in there early 30’s love waits
love will wait, so take your time don’t rush either way don’t rush down the isle and don’t run away cuz you are not sure, just take your time and enjoy what you both are now
Engaged thats freak awesome to be enjoy that
I my self was enegaged when i was 20, bc he was my best friend and i loved him and i couldnt think of my life with out him as part of it (i was scared to say no b.c. i knew then he wouldnt be in my life anymore it would have really hurt his feelings so i said yes)
my thoughts when he proposed oh god why is he doing this to me…. thats not how u wanna feel when someone asks lol
well when i was 22 he wanted to get married have kids and all that, I wanted to go to school we had spoke of travel and seeing more of the world exploring and learning things together all of a sudden he wanted to be married get a house have kids and i was not ready he didn’t want anything he used to want and i was scared
I got strong and told him how i felt, we didn’t get married we broke up but it was def for the best I was tooyoung and i don’t regret it for a moment better to wait then to become divorced in your mid 20s cuz you got married in your early 20s
I am not saying you should break up, your in love that would be crazy to go form one extream to the other.
I am saying don’t rush b.c. its not fair to you or him to get married till you feel ready you can have a long engagment feel it out find out if your really ready b.c. 22 is young
I am now 27 I have never been happier I love my faincee he is right for me, and I am glad I got brave and got real and ended my 1st engagment b4 i was married
side note my faincee has been married b4 when he was in his early 20’s after collage he and I were sorta alike. He thought it was what your sposta do and he was dating a wonderful women who adored him so they got married, but they also got divorced b.c. he was not ready to be married.
He speaks highly of her and is happy she re married and has her kids and everything she wanted with him cuz she is a great girl and deserves that he just wasnt ready back then, so so many people do fall into the rush and then not being ready.
its good to take your time if your having cold feet if someone loves you waiting more time wont upset them they will want you to be ready