(Closed) Engaged, date change, need help from Military Bees

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I think your FI needs to puch and keep requesting leave next year sometime in the spring. Obviously april won’t work, but he should be able to get leave immediately afterwords- perhaps may or early june. I am assuming his “being out of town” is NOT a deployment right??

Above all please do not give up your wedding because of anyone’s suggestions.

Post # 5
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868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

He’s only asked once right? If he keeps asking and makes it clear taht this is non negotiable and for a wedding, they will have to work with him

Post # 7
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868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

i know it sucks but it sounds like may is your best bet! i wold not want to be in your shoes but i will be losing my honey to a deployment around that time so i’m sure you would not want to be in mine either 🙂

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

Why don’t you plan for March? Then have him put in leave. You don’t need a year to plan a wedding, especially one for 40 people. If you take your time and your projects one by one, you can get everything ready and his leave *should* be approved so you can have a firm date set in stone.

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