Engaged … but not quite? (long and generally happy :)

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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2538 posts
Sugar bee

@Kat_Kit2000:  Congrats! I remember when FI and I had “the talk” about forever lol.

At that point one of my concerns was that we had been together so long and with no engagement yet it felt like he didn’t want to commit. He basically told me that everything he plans for the future he plans with US in mind and he called me his “long term” lol (we may have been tipsy as well).

But he also mentioned that he would never put in all that time and effort into a relationship if he wasn’t 100% sure that is what he wanted for the rest of his life (i.e. he wouldn’t have been with me so long if he didn’t KNOW he wanted to marry me). Men just like to find the *right* time in life when things aren’t so busy (school, starting careers, etc)

Sounds like it’ll be coming soon!

Post # 4
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2037 posts
Buzzing bee

@Kat_Kit2000:  Congrats!  It’s much better to be on the same page with your SO and know that even if it’s not ‘official’ it’s coming!

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