(Closed) Engaged! Now what?

posted 7 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

AWESOME! Congrats!

There are plenty of online tools to help you with planning. If you do a search on “wedding planning schedule” you;ll find some info. You are right that typically, you pick the date and place first, but not everyone goes in order (the first thing I did was buy my MOH’s dress- even before my own)! You’ll want to start thinking about color schemes and who you want for attendants. And start looking at photos of gowns online or in a magazine, and save some into a folder so that you can bring it with you on your first dress shopping trip (but keep an open mind, a lot of us do not get what we think we want).

Have a blast!

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Start with a budget. Then everything else will fall into place. You can’t go venue shopping if you don’t know a budget. After that, get a rough estimate of a guest list. You don’t want to fall in love with a venue that is too expensive or too small for your wedding. Weddingbee is an awesome source of info! You will love it here. 

Congrats on the engagement! The ring is beautiful! 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

That’s so true, about having a budget!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Gorgeous ring! 

Miss Tattoo is absolutely right. Make a budget and stick with it. If you start saying, “Aw, we’ll splurge on just this…” without a plan in place, it will start a chain reaction and you’ll end up blowing all your money! lol 

Also, here’s another piece of advice: Once you pick your dress, STOP LOOKING. I didn’t, and I ended up changing my dress twice. You’ll always find dresses you love, so pick one and stop torturing yourself. Believe me; I speak from experience! ๐Ÿ˜‰

CONGRATULATIONS! ๐Ÿ˜€

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Gorgeous ring!! Yes, budget is the most important factor because you cant do anything before you know it. Then once that is set you either can decide on number of guests first or venue first.

 

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Congrats!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Congrats!

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I think finding a photographer now is important too. If you want to send save the dates it would be nice to use your engagement photos for them ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Congrats! Beautiful ring! I agree with the other Bees that the most important thing to do first is to set a budget! Happy Wedding Planning!

Post # 13
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Congrats!

I agree with others that the budget comes first, then try to book your big vendors (caterer, photographer, etc) since they book up the furthest out from your wedding dates.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

congrats!  Have so much fun… The first thing I did was pick out the wedding party (lol!)

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Congrats!

1. Budget, and a timeline of who contributes what when (important if vendors require deposits, payment schedules, etc – that $15,000 your parents might give you isn’t very helpful if they can’t give it to you till your wedding month)

2. Guest list – don’t even think about looking at venues or caterers until you have a number of guests. You’ll inevitably get attached to a place that is too small for your wedding, or pay more for a large place when you could have gone smaller.

3. Venue/photographer/caterer

4. All the rest!

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Congrats!   Like others have said, the guest list and budget dictates the rest of your planning.  Once that is determined I would start looking at dresses because they have a long waiting time if you order one from a bridal shop.  A venue would be next but you are lucky to have one already.  BTW, i’m from Orlando  as well.  Would you mind sharing which venue you picked?  I’m looking for ideas.

I actually started a thread similar to yours about 2 weeks ago or so.  Look under my posts.  My thread got a lot of good tips and advice.

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