Engagement and commitment concerns

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
9253 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Purplefurrydice:  Ok.  You’ve made him sound like the cheapskate of all times who feels lukewarm about you at best.  Do you really want to sign up for a lifetime of this? 

Tell me some good things about this guy and why you would want to marry him

Post # 4
Member
451 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Getting engaged won’t fix any of your issues.

If you were about to leave him because of problems in the relationship, it’s a really bad idea to get married. Having an engagement with no end in sight will also strain your relationship further.

Sounds like it’s time to leave.

Post # 5
Member
50 posts
Worker bee

trust your gut instinct on this one…if you have to ask questions you need to investigate this further…

Make sure you have all these issues sorted out…I would suggest you address the joint account, your together 7 years so a joint account to save together should be a reasonable request. 

Why did you tell him you didnt want an e-ring, was it because you felt he really didnt want to purchase one for you?

Can I ask how old you guys are?

If you were about to leave because of his lack of commitment and other problems there are most definatly issues to sort out

Post # 6
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8593 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

So, why do you want to marry him?

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