(Closed) Engagement nerves

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
5007 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

I was a little nervous before we got engaged, but once we actually did, I felt 100% amazing about it! I always get really nervous about big life decisions and I never doubted I should marry my FI, but I wasn’t sure if I was ready and was just really nervous. Deep down you know if he’s the one and it sounds like yours is! I’ve been engaged now for 4.5 months and it’s been wonderful, seriously rainbows and butterflies wonderful. Wedding planning hasn’t been stressful and I feel even closer to my FI than ever before. Good luck!

Post # 5
11753 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think what you are feeling is normal. As my engagement became closer and more “real” i felt similar thoughts.  Same now as the wedding gets closer.  As long as they are fleeting thoughts that go as quickly as they come I think it’s normal. Marriage is a huge decision and transition – I’d personally be more concerned if the anxious thoughts you’ve had weren’t there.  It should be thought about very carefully and from every angle.

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