- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2009
I have a question that has been bothering me for a while and i was wondering if anyone else had the same experience. I want to know if anyone else was upset at the way they were proposed to? I guess like most woman, I dreamed of all the romantic senarios in which my Boyfriend or Best Friend could propose to me (we picked out the ring together so I knew it was coming). I had a couple of ideas in my head and my engagement didn’t even come close to what I thought it would be.
He basically just threw it in my lap as we were sitting on my couch watching TV (but I could tell he was super nervous) and said "hey want to get married?" I looked at the ring and wanted to cry but not becasue of happiness but becaue I was like seriously, this is my proposal?? I feigned excitement and said yes, but I was so disappointed.
I feel so guilty for feeling this way and it shouldn’t matter but I wont even tell anyone how he asked me, I am so embarrassed. And man its hard to dodge that question. I feel so awful that I am so ungrateful and should be happy that he even asked me to marry him. How did anyone else get over this?
Even though I feel like a bad person, I thought since no one knows I would ask anyway and maybe I am not alone.