(Closed) Engagement Ring!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1729 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Welcome to WB! I’m a little confused by some parts of your post, but a couple things stand out to me though — you were expecting (because you were told to) both a diamond, and white gold, and got a cubic zirconia ring in yellow gold, right? The gold color thing is weird to me though because in general, one color gold is not really more expensive than another (in the same purity, like 14k to 14k). So, why would he not just buy the color he knew you liked (instead of one that could “fool” someone to think it looked like it)? That aside, you said you both have agreed on swapping the ring for something you really like, right? I guess I just don’t understand why you are feeling so bad about wanting the change. As far as I can tell, you’ve already brought it up to him, so you already know how he is reacting to you not liking the ring since it isn’t your taste and isn’t what you thought he would pick for you. That can be a really tough thing to talk about initially, but if he’s open to the change, I say, you should take him up on it. Good luck! πŸ™‚

Post # 6
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2201 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I think that if he is open to it, you should get a ring that will make both of you happy – one that you can wear with your wedding band and looks like what you had imagined he would propose with. Otherwise you may always look at your current ring and think about what it isn’t, instead of what it represents.

Post # 8
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153 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I dont think I understand what your saying? But if you worked it out then cool I guess?

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