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posted 1 year ago in Rings
  • poll: What do you do with your engagement ring?
    Wear it as a set : (23 votes)
    66 %
    Had it soldered together : (4 votes)
    11 %
    Wear engagement on the right hand : (1 votes)
    3 %
    Dont wear it at all : (7 votes)
    20 %
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    Ale    May 2009  

    Lately I've seen so many different things that people do with their engagement rings after the wedding...

    I don't wear my engagement ring or the wedding band at all because I work in health care. I got myself a plain white gold wedding band for work and don't even take it off most days.

    And sometimes feel like I didn't even need the engagement ring at all, I come from another country where there is no such a thing. My engagement ring is a solitaire so I am very tempted to put it into a bezel set necklace....

     

     
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    mandb122    March 6, 2011   Temporarily in Minnesota, From South Carolina, Wedding in Charleston

    I take off my engagement ring that'll go with my wedding band and wear a different ring that he gave me while I'm at work too.  I work in a group home and I don't want to risk it being taken or get ruined somehow.  I will wear them as a set when I'm not at work though after I get married.

     
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    nmsoonerbride    March 19, 2011   Live in New Mexico, wedding in Oklahoma City

    Make absolutely sure that it won't hurt FI's feelings if you change it to a necklace.  And if he's fine with it, I would go for it.   I'm in healthcare, and chose a simple band for my engagement ring (it will double as my wedding band) for this very reason.

     
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    shelliduke    October 17, 2009   New York, NY

    I voted for wear it on my right hand, but I usually don't wear it at work.  I work in health care too, and have a wide, flat, simple wedding band.  I almost always wear the wedding ring and it works for me.  My engagement ring is not the traditional solitaire, it has a wider band so I really can't wear it with my wedding band anyway, and it also has a slit in it so stuff gets in the slit.  Ew.

    I think putting the diamond in a necklace, if you're more likely to wear it (and as long as your FI agrees too) is a great idea!

     
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    Ale    May 2009  

    @nmsoonerbride: I wish I had two bands then I would wear it. It's not even the stones it's the solitaire center stone that bothers me with gloves and washing hands a million times a day. That's a good idea with the two bands.

     
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    nmsoonerbride    March 19, 2011   Live in New Mexico, wedding in Oklahoma City

    @Ale:yeah, a  big (or even a small) diamond is just a pain at work.   I think the necklace is a great idea!

     
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    KaitlinHudson    December 18, 2010   Patuxent River, MD

    We actually decided to buy a separate bridal set because my e-ring was a very cheap solitaire which was all we could afford at the time of proposal. I won't wear my e-ring at all.

     
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    mrsdoctor    October 9, 2010   Johnstown PA

    I work healthcare too and wear my ring all the time, and will wear both. the only time i'll take them off is when i make meatloaf or am really getting my hands messed up.

     

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