(Closed) Engagement Timeline Help!

posted 5 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
Member
35 posts
Newbee

First, take a deep breath:). I am certain that he really can’t wait to propose – he may in fact already have the ring. This being said, I think you need to stop talking about it for a while. He probably wants to propose on his own terms, and not do it because you are pestering him about it, you know? Just let it happen. If he brings up summer wedding plans, just say that its not looking like its going to happen this year, maybe next year. Is there a reason that you HAVE to get married this summer? How about just sitting back and enjoying the ride:). Let him do it on his terms, otherwise it wont be as special because you will always feel he only did it because you pressured him. I am in the same boat – so you are not alone! Just stop bringing it up to him – as hard as it is….

ps – he also could be trying to afford the best ring possible for you… they arent cheap!;)

Post # 4
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483 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@vanessamarie930:  Well some guys like to do a whole lot of talking before doing, It;s like a warm up! Plus a year is not a long time, and though he wants to marry you, he might be hung up on the timing, who knows!  Patience is key here, and getting impatient with him about this topic will do you absolutely no good.  I wonder if you perhaps feel this way because you just want to feel closer to him? I would suggest living in the same town  (if not together)for a while first before badgering him for a proposal. Spend time together, enjoy eachother! Let things happen in their natural order, patience will be your saviour in this!

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