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posted 2 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Smithfield Center

I would just put Guest of Jane Doe.

OR if they’re someone you actually talk to, ask for their +1’s name! I got the names of my guests’ +1’s so that way they could feel a little more included and not just there.

Post # 4
8388 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I just asked for the names of +1s.

Post # 5
1397 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I called/texted/facebook everyone who had a +1 and got the persons name…it took some time but I liked the way it all turned out.  But, Guest of Jane Doe is just fine.

Post # 6
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Kc6882:  As PP have said, just ask for the name.  Or if it’s your mom’s second cousin’s friend or whatever, have your mom ask.

Post # 7
11614 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You call them and ask for the name of their guest.

I would feel incredibly uncomfortable if I were a guest at a wedding and the host didn’t even bother to take the 10 seconds to find out my name.

Post # 8
193 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’d find out the name as well. I’m in the process of doing this and it’s been a huge help. I wanted to avoid putting “guest of” if I could (although if you must, you must, and I don’t think that’s rude) and also, frankly, I just wanted to know who was going to be coming to my wedding haha.

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