Etiquette dilema

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

She is engaged, yes you need to invite her fiancée. 

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Yes, definitely invite him.

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

you should invite him.  i invited everyone who had an SO, no matter how short or long.  as long as they had a name, they were invited.  the only thing i didn’t do, what invite people with “and guest.”

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee

Invite him 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

Yes, invite him. Even if they weren’t engaged, I would accommodate my cousin’s SO. My fiancé and I were already living together after 5 months, I think a 6 months relationship is significant no matter if engaged or not. 

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

blueteacup:  I would call to confirm they have recieved the invitation, and then extend the invitation to the fiance now that they are both engaged. Doing this over the phone in my opinion is fine.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Church

blueteacup:  Just call her up or message her and tell her that you made an error on her invitation and that she is welcome to bring her FI with her to your wedding. I don’t see the big deal in that.

Post # 12
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679 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - SPRING VALLEY COUNTRY CLUB

He’s offical now, he gets an invite

Post # 13
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Yes, he needs an invite, and I would just call up the cousin.

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