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Etiquette Myths

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    Niki    05/31/2008  

    The ones I have been hearing the most lately are:

    Myth:  The bride and groom have one year to send thank-you notes.
    Truth:  All thank you notes should be written within three months of the receipt of the gift.

    Myth:  Guests have one year to give a gift.
    Truth:  Contrary to a current rumor that you have a year to send a gift, it really should be sent right away or within three months of the wedding.

    What etiquette "rules" have you read or heard about?

     
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    Jenniphyr    February 2, 2013   Alberta, Canada

    Myth: You shouldn't say "no children" on the invite

    Truth: If you don't say no children, there will be children at your wedding. And hurt feelings. Believe it. 

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    ivorygirl    10/24/2009   Houston, TX

    Myth: A white dress is only supposed to be worn by a virginal bride.

    Truth: A white dress signifies that a bride has never been married before (source: too many Miss Manners columns to count).

     

    Myth: The value of a wedding gift should cover the estimated cost of the guest's or guests' dinner at the reception. 

    Truth: The value of a wedding gift should match what the guests find reasonable and affordable (again, too many Miss Manners columns to count). 

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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    Myth:  The bride is the point person for all guest wedding related questions.

    Reality: H to the No!  We've already got too much going on.  Talk to our moms or a bridesmaid before you come to us.  If they can't figure it out, we'll help you then!

     
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    Myth: the bride and groom shouldn't see each other before the ceremony.  It's bad luck!

     Truth: this is a hold over from the days when arranged marriages meant a bride and groom may have never met and was intended to prevent the groom from running off if he found his betrothed unattractive.  I think we can retire this one.

     

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