Post # 1
If someone gives you a gift for the bridal shower and then gives you money or a gift at the wedding, do you send 2 thank you cards, or wait until after the wedding to send the thank you’s. My bridal shower is 3 weeks before my wedding. Thanks in advance!
Post # 2
bridal shower gets own thank you note/card. wedding gift gets their own thank you card… start sending bridal shower cards thank yous as soon as you get the gift…….
Post # 3
I think two separate notes are more thoughtful.
Do the shower thank you notes immediately so they are sent before the wedding.
Thank you notes for gifts received before the wedding can also be sent at the time the gift is received. It can be reassuring for guests to know that their gift arrived safely.
Even if you decide not to mail them before the wedding, writing your thank you notes as the gifts arrive will lessen the demands on you after the wedding.
Post # 4
truefrommetoyou: two thank you cards, one for the bridal shower and one for the wedding.
Post # 5
I agree with PPs; write a thank you for both gifts, but be sure to get the shower thank you notes out before the wedding!
Post # 6
truefrommetoyou: I would send 2 seperate cards.
Post # 7
truefrommetoyou: two separate events, two separate gifts = two separate cards.