Etiquette question about thank you's

posted 2 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

bridal shower gets own thank you note/card. wedding gift gets their own thank you card… start sending bridal shower cards thank yous as soon as you get the gift…….

Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think two separate notes are more thoughtful.

Do the shower thank you notes immediately so they are sent before the wedding.

Thank you notes for gifts received before the wedding can also be sent at the  time the gift is received. It can be reassuring for guests to know that their gift arrived safely.

Even if you decide not to mail them before the wedding, writing your thank you notes as the gifts arrive will lessen the demands on you after the wedding.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

truefrommetoyou:  two thank you cards, one for the bridal shower and one for the wedding. 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I agree with PPs; write a thank you for both gifts, but be sure to get the shower thank you notes out before the wedding!

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